I've been thinking that "what cannot be given" and "so must be taken" is virginity. Think about it. Can you give virginity? Well, aside from vaginoplasty or that vaginal rejuvenation crap or operations that supposedly restore a hymen, it's something that can only be taken, not really given. I thought of this as I read Dan Savage's column about naming the act of unprotected anal sex between hetero teens doing it in a misguided bid to preserve vaginal virginity as "Saddlebacking" re: bigot Rick Warren's church. Of course, multiple readings are possible, but raping a virgin seems even more wrong, which means WIN for evil rapist Moz lyricist.