I wish my view was not so skewed by where I work, but it is
so here goes
unattached males and females both come to bars to get drunk and "hook up" later
now before I worked at a bar I operated under the illusion that it was only men who spent most of their time ogling and talking to the standard/regular notion fo what is physically attractive
I honestly thought women were better than that
I was mistaken
Most women seem to be attracted to an even smaller band of men than men are of women
What appears to be sexy them is:
1. height, tallness seems to make a lot of women drool
2. really nice clothes, I see them inspecting a man's clothes
3. hair, women love great hair on a dude!
4. teeth, flash them your pearly whites and you are in dude
5. singing voice, well it is a karaoke bar so that one makes sense
intelligence simply does not enter into it
f***in A, I wish it did
but I am not going to pretend it does
sorry