> it isn't the way he chews his food, he obviously abuses her. and SHE dies
> not her mother, which is why 'there's noone in heaven' to meet her.
Yes, it's obvious that he sexually abuses her. You can tell by the lines "No one to warm me, no hand to touch me". He has obviously touched her where he shuldn't, it also goes with the line "He says 'I'm sorry' and he dies". He begs for forgiveness for abusing her. I too believe she kills herself, not her mother, even though I begin to doubt now after the question has been raised. But I think she committs suicide.