Not in this case....
If These Charming Men were a full time act maybe i'd agree with you.
But they are not, they only play a few times a year.
What's the difference between this and say, The Smiths and Morrissey nights that appear all over the place?
The Smiths will never play alive again, but for a few hours every now and then we can 'fantasise' and pretend that they are real (most of us were probably too young to see them anyway), or we can just stick the records on and dance to them in a club.
It's all good fun. Escapism.
Lighten up.