troubleluvsme
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But we all are, my dear. We all are.
In the sense that one must first provide for and love oneself before he/she can provide for and truly love others; then yes, I would agree with you.
That being said, most of the people in my circle do not seem to consider themselves to be the "center" of their own universe. I certainly don't consider myself to be the center of mine.
Most of the people with whom I am close make sacrifices, and often put the needs of others in front of their own - or at least, equal to their own.