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Saturday May 28, 05

I love my journal, I love my journal...

09:53 PM

It has become a friend to me. Or maybe I have become a friend to myself.

Anyhow, I saw this "firsts" list in JTL's journal and thought I'd give it a go.

First best friend ~ Dawn 10-13 years old, until I moved out of town, cry

First car ~ 1980 Oldsmobile

First real date ~ 7th grade Christmas dance. We went to dinner and to the dance. His dad chauffeured. The guy was rich, in the Advanced Academic Placement Program with me, and was on the swim team. He was very popular. But, he turned out to be psychotic. Looking back on it now, he was the FIRST sociopath that I have ever encountered. Wow, I bet he is a troll on some website today. I hope it isn't this one. Anyhow, what made him so pathetic was that when I had moved from Ohio to Florida in my 9th year, I soon got cancer. I found out through the grapevine, that he had told EVERYONE that I had died. I bet some people still think this. Oh, he also started a "Who hates Jehne?" list, because I would not go out with him any longer. It actually got some signatures. Fortunately, I was popular as well. God, this reminds me of the movie "Election." Funnies, I would never have recalled this memory if it weren't for this 'first date' question. Moving on...

First real kiss ~ 7th grade at a boy/girl party while playing spin the bottle. It was awful -- there was an audience. I felt like a performing seal. But, the first pleasurable and meaningful kiss/relationship was with Scott in 8th grade. He was my first. And, I was his.

First break-up ~ Scott - beginning of 9th grade. My family moved from Ohio to Florida. It was a forced separation.

First screen name ~ Smithsonissey

First self-purchased album ~ Pink Floyd's The Wall

First funeral ~ grandfather's 1979. I have only been to two. I don't do weddings nor funerals. I don't want to ever go to another funeral. I don't know that I will ever go to another wedding. I have only been to three -- my mom's remarriage, my aunt's -- when I was a child, and my pathetic, unmemorable own.

First pets ~ Fluffy my cat as a child

First piercing/tattoo ~ No tattoos. I had my ears pierced when I was 10 -- then double pierced at 13. I got my navel pierced in 1993 in the famed Ybor City ~ Tampa, Florida.

First credit card ~ while in college

First enemy ~ I think it would have to be, that guy that I had my first date with.

First musician you remember hearing in your house ~ Neil Diamond's "Sweet Caroline"


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  • i love tells me soooo much about you.

    Couldn't stop laughing through this..........especially the first date. My first date was hailed. and basically it sucked, but it was the start of a very long and wierd relationship. i will tell you later if your interested.
    bit funny really....they say opposites attract.......thats bullshit, opposites drive each other insane.....!!!!!

    We did anyway. while ago now......thing is everyone loves him, but im the only one who really know him.........

    i guess i could break him if i tryed, but im not that cruel
    prudence never paid -- Sunday May 29 2005, @03:09AM (#163922)
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    "The youth of the present day are quite monstrous. They have absolutly no respect for dyed hair." - Oscar Wilde
    • Re:hey by realitybites (Score:1) Sunday May 29 2005, @10:30AM
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  • I completed that one a long time ago. Thought I'd list it here for you to see in case you missed it.

    Wednesday May 26, 04

    06:28 PM - Q&A


    First best friend: Shea
    First car: Tracker
    First real date: Summer of 87
    First real kiss: Summer of 87
    First break-up: Spring 88
    First screen name: hand in glove
    First self purchased album: Rio / Duran Duran
    First funeral: my uncle
    First pets: BoBo a black and white cat
    First piercing/tattoo: my ears; no tattoo
    First credit card: 1993
    First enemy: Fifth grade
    First musician you remember hearing in your house: The Beatles


    Last cigarette: Not one in my whole life
    Last car ride: three hours ago
    Last good cry: Hmmm, it's been a while since I've had a GOOD cry
    Last library book checked out: "Catcher In The Rye"
    Last movie seen: Troy
    Last beverage drank: Tea
    Last food consumed: Tomato Linguini
    Last crush: 1999
    Last phone call: Sunday. I hate talking on the phone
    Last time showered: This morning
    Last shoes worn: Birkenstock sandles
    Last cd played: Keane
    Last item bought: Clinique skin care
    Last annoyance: The sales lady at the Clinique counter
    Last disappointment: Troy
    Last time wanting to die: Yesterday
    Last time scolded: Years ago
    Last shirt worn: It's a peachy color
    Last website visited: This one
    Last word you said: "good"
    Last song you sang: I was singing along to "You Know I Couldn't Last" yesterday
    What is in your cd player?: nothing right now
    What color socks are you wearing?: I'm not wearing socks
    What color of underwear are you wearing? Turquoise
    What's under your bed?: nothing
    What time did you wake up today?: 7:31 am


    What is your career going to be?: Aesthetics
    Where are you going to live?: Right here. I love it.
    How many kids do you want?: zero
    What kind of car(s): I want another Audi. They are such good cars.


    Current mood: eh
    Current music: nothing
    Current taste: modern
    Current hair: just there
    Current clothes: shorts and shirt
    Current annoyance(s): none
    Current desktop picture: Of Pier and Hannah
    Current favorite artist: Dali
    Current book(s): The Bell Jar
    Current color of toenails: Pink - I don't know what I was thinking. I usually hate Pink.
    Current time-wasting wish: I have none at the moment
    Current hate: Politics
    hand in glove -- Sunday May 29 2005, @11:09PM (#164080)
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    "Sometimes things fall apart so that better things can fall together" - Marilyn Monroe
    • Re:Hey RB by realitybites (Score:1) Monday May 30 2005, @02:16AM
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