Well, he's spoken on the issue a few times, and it didn't sound as if he was allowing contraception (neither in general, nor in Africa in particular), and that wasn't a personal message to his wife, but to the "Catholics" - the group he's leading. In that sense, his responsibility is rather obvious.
And when the pope says that the Catholic church is against the use of condoms, it means that medical groups run by Catholics in Africa are in theory not allowed to hand out condoms. Or to promote condom use and raise awareness for contraceptive techniques. This doesn't dispense non-catholics from stepping in (and they do), but you can't underestimate the impact Catholic organisations have in Africa (schools, medical centers, evangelists...). A lot of their HIV/AIDS programmes talk about love, abstinence and faithfulness - no problem with that, but it's a bit inconclusive, isn't it?
Right, condoms are not 100% safe for contraception and STDs. Why? Because they can slip off or break, or people don't use them correctly. Not because condoms decide they (dis)like your face and want to see you having children, or an STD...
As far as the protests go.. you're right, it's a lot about negativity, and little about positivity. I know people who are upset by all this, yet the minute you ask them to donate money for MsF in Africa, they refuse... I'd be glad if every protester donates 10 pounds to a non-catholic aid organisation.
I think the thing we keep coming back to is responsibility. I don't see that the same way as you do, but I understand what you are saying. Was George Bush responsible for Abu Ghraib? the policies of his administration made it possible, but individual soldiers were put on trial for their actions.
You mention the Pope's wife.
I did a google image search for fun and got this.
Anyway, you're right, he's not talking to his wife, he's talking to his followers. I'm thinking that they choose to follow him. I guess the amount of programming and its effects would be debatable.
Here's what is clear. If you want the people in Africa to have access to birth control, as you stated, you have to give to other organizations. You say that people seem kind of apathetic towards this and I suspect this is true. I've seen a lot of anti-religious rhetoric in this forum, for example, but I don't recall any talk about how to save Africa from AIDS. To be fair, NoGodsNoMasters86 did talk about Darfur to some extent when he wasn't calling for the annihilation of religion.
Love, abstinence, faithfulness; not a bad start I guess, but no they won't work for everyone. That's why, on the subject of saving Africa, which you obviously care about and have thought about, we can not look to the Catholic Church.
When they do so much there, they do it within the confines of their beliefs, and this is their right. It's not a reason to block a head of state from entering the UK.
It's a very messy complicated issue that doesn't boil down to an easy headline or bumpersticker, and that was my point. I think there may be valid reasons to consider barring the Pope from the UK, but the sad thing is that the right reasons are not being emphasized, and the actual attempt to stop him is largely the result of religious intolerance. The clearer this becomes the more closely the Pope will be able to portray his detractors, ironically, as Nazis.
Pope Benedict in his Hitler Youth uniform.
and waving to the crowd. I think he's waving, anyway...
But wait, he says that his service in the Hitler Youth was involuntary. So are we blaming him for it? I'll wait to see. It would be difficult to find him responsible for failing to resist the Nazis when he was a child, and yet find that Catholics are unable to make up their own minds.