Does your current partner, or your (EX) partner, 'spy' on your activities on this site, or any other such site?
Just wondered, like
Wait....how could they possibly even know about this site?
I don't have time to read through this archived thread right now....
but I believe that somewhere in here, it states to never tell anyone about this site.
I'm single, so no one to spy on me! A few years ago I did have a friend who is fairly computer illiterate ask me to help him see what his boyfriend had been up to on their computer as he thought he was hooking up with people he met online. I saw things that I never need to see again (but are seared in my brain), and I think we both learned that if you spy you aren't going to like anything you find.