Danny
Senior Member
Yes it does. Their marriage obviously was on the rocks for years. They divorced when Morrissey was 17, we don't know when they split up or whether they might have had a few splits. Also, all working class families tend to spend more time with the mother's in-laws. When women have babies they tend to get closer to their mothers, even if it's just to use as a babysitter.He was 17 when his parents split. Not exactly a child. So that doesn't explain why he was 'brought up by the mother's side of the family''.
The majority of men aren't as close to their fathers. It's the most problematic of family relationships probably because of high expectations and competition. But none of those quotes tell us Morrissey wasn't close to his father.I have - those interviews from Les Inrockuptibles and Word, for instance. If your impression is that Morrissey is not insufficiently close to his father (even the opposite?!), OK, that's your impression, although I really don't see how you came to that conclusion. Of course, you might say that it's usual for the majority of men, or the majority of working-class men not to be particularly close to their fathers... in which case, I would have to ask, maybe the majority of men are not close enough to their fathers?
How do you know Morrissey didn't know? Rogan's way of contacting people was to keep ringing them up and hassling them until they gave in. Johnny Marr said he used the same tactics on his family, that's why he eventually gave in and gave an interview. How do you know Morrissey's Dad just didn't give a spur of the moment interview over the phone and then told his son later? It obviously wasn't an in-depth interview seeing as nothing about Morrissey was talked about. Morrissey wouldn't have been aware of Rogan's intentions from the beginning so he might not have been able to warn his family in advance.He got the some of the photos from them. The point I was making was, his father was interviewed for the book, but Morrissey had no idea, even though he was adamant that his family should not participate in it, isn't that strange? Unless he didn't have much contact with his father.
What?? Do people actually believe that? That's just utter rubbish. (yes, I understand it is not your belief, but you imply that it's a widespread belief?
Yes, it's a widespread cliche/stereotype. Think Kenneth Williams.
There are plenty examples of men who are extremely close to their mothers with the father is being absent... and most of them aren't gay. I don't think that men decide to have sex with other men because their mum was too protective of them, or that they decide they prefer to have sex with women because their dad took them to a lot of football games. P.S. are women who are particularly close to their fathers ('daddy's little girls') supposed to 'turn' into lesbians?!
But any problems in relationship with one's parents will most likely have a hell of a lot of effect on one's adult relationships and emotioanl life (which can manifest itself in different ways). The phenomenon of particularly strong mother-son bonds in the (relative or literal) absence of a father is not exactly an unknown phenomenon, books and articles have been written about it.
Anyway, I don't see how stories of Morrissey's relationships with his parents could be a part of a stereotype of him as a 'gay man'. None of the people who actually knew him, whether in his adolescence or in his adulthood, ever said or implied that they thought he as gay. But quite a few of them have commented on his strong attachment to his mother.
But journalists have decided he is gay. So they impose these stereotypes onto him. They make the person fit the cliche. So he must be too close to his mother. He must always be writing about rough boys (how many songs has he actually done that?), it must be a complete surprise that he is interested in and is good at sport. He only has male fans who are all in love with him. He moved to LA because it has a thriving gay scene. He lives in a "gay" house.
Look at the way they treats artists who have come out as gay. They can't even mention their name without putting "gay" in front of it and if they are not friends with Madonna there's something wrong with them. People have to fit into their boxes.
Rogan wasn't eager to prove that Morrissey wasn't close to his father. It's other writers that have tried to do that.And I don't see why Johnny Rogan would be eager to prove that Morrissey wasn't close enough to his father if it was just a part of a 'gay man stereotype'. I never got the impression that Rogan believes Morrissey to be gay, and "Severed Alliance" certainly does nothing to suggest that.
All I know is I've never read one disparaging quote from Morrissey about his father. The nearest is some journalist saying he pulled a face when asked about him.