Should it stay or should it go?

[PregnantForTheLastTime]

As many of you know, I have a form of cancer, and I'm going through chemo treatments. Of course, chemo nearly always means losing your hair. And losing your hair is more than just needing to wear a hat, it feels strongly symbolic for letting the illness get the upper hand.

My hair (as seen below, Figure A) still looks decent, but it's pretty limp and I don't think I'll have enough to style in another day or two.

So... brings me to my poll question. I could go today and get it all cut off, leaving me with a very short Mia Farrow haircut; I could walk into my bathroom and buzz it all off with a hairclipper; or I could do nothing and let the falling hair clog up all my drains and make me feel frustrated and impotent. (Not literally, NRITH.) If I cut it, it's still going to fall out, but it won't be quite so hard to ignore.

And why I am asking you? I have no idea. But I am. I think I just need moral support.

 

[EPbabe]

You have a very pretty face and a nice shape too, so I think you'll look lovely with the Mia Farrow hairdo too. (I had very short hair a few years ago, and my h loved it, he still keeps asking me to cut it.)

 

[oye terence]

As many of you know, I have a form of cancer, and I'm going through chemo treatments. Of course, chemo nearly always means losing your hair. And losing your hair is more than just needing to wear a hat, it feels strongly symbolic for letting the illness get the upper hand.

My hair (as seen below, Figure A) still looks decent, but it's pretty limp and I don't think I'll have enough to style in another day or two.

So... brings me to my poll question. I could go today and get it all cut off, leaving me with a very short Mia Farrow haircut; I could walk into my bathroom and buzz it all off with a hairclipper; or I could do nothing and let the falling hair clog up all my drains and make me feel frustrated and impotent. (Not literally, NRITH.) If I cut it, it's still going to fall out, but it won't be quite so hard to ignore.

And why I am asking you? I have no idea. But I am. I think I just need moral support.

go slowly,i think it will be easier to deal wit h if you go in little stages,so go with a short cut,then take it from there,and besides pixie cuts are hot,just make sure they dont do the horrid middle aged house wife pixie,there is a difference,and such a little thing...

 

[Amy]

PregnantfortheLastTime - you're beautiful.


Oh, and - I think a boycut is a good idea.

 

[bikubesong]

Keep it! You look lovely!

 

[Morrissey the 23rd]

As many of you know, I have a form of cancer, and I'm going through chemo treatments. Of course, chemo nearly always means losing your hair. And losing your hair is more than just needing to wear a hat, it feels strongly symbolic for letting the illness get the upper hand.

My hair (as seen below, Figure A) still looks decent, but it's pretty limp and I don't think I'll have enough to style in another day or two.

So... brings me to my poll question. I could go today and get it all cut off, leaving me with a very short Mia Farrow haircut; I could walk into my bathroom and buzz it all off with a hairclipper; or I could do nothing and let the falling hair clog up all my drains and make me feel frustrated and impotent. (Not literally, NRITH.) If I cut it, it's still going to fall out, but it won't be quite so hard to ignore.

And why I am asking you? I have no idea. But I am. I think I just need moral support.

Best of luck with the treatment. You would look great whatever you decide. Even if you decide to wear a 'See you Jimmy' hat.

 

[nugz]

I honestly think you have a face for a Mia Farrow cut. i wouldn't recommend it if i I didnt think so. I see it in my head. you could pull it off.

 

[crimes]

You are beautiful! I think you would definitely look good with a short hair style so I'd say go for that. Good luck with your treatment.

 

[Corrissey]

PregnantfortheLastTime - you're beautiful.


Oh, and - I think a boycut is a good idea.

I agree.

You'll look great with a short cut. My sister-in-law (had a great head of hair like yours) who went thru chemo started losing her hair then decided to just shave her head and wear a wig. She didn’t want her three boys to be shocked when she started balding, so she took matters into her own hands. And the wig she got was completely different from her normal hair/style, a short, reddish-brown bob that EVERYONE loved. She’s done with treatments (bless!) and is still wearing the wig while her hair grows back, but she’s decided to go/stay short from now on. Low maintenance. I love short hair but I’m a short hair kind of gal. You’ve got gorgeous features, a short style will look fabulous. Good luck with everything. We must get together so I can see you and your new 'do!

 

[PregnantForTheLastTime]

Best of luck with the treatment. You would look great whatever you decide. Even if you decide to wear a 'See you Jimmy' hat.

Thank you. (What's a 'See You Jimmy' hat?)

 

[mozmal]

Pregnantforthelasttime - you are a naturally attractive person, so no matter what hair style you go with, you'll still be attractive! In my opinion, you should keep what you have. Good luck with all you are going through.

 

[Jukebox Jury]

See You Jimmy hats.....

It's a Scottish thing
http://www.flickr.com/groups/seeyoujimmy/

So what is it?

A tremendously tasteful souvenir from Scotland, consisting of a tam o'shanter, ornamented with a bobble. To make the wearer look more Scottish, it also has shoulder-length ginger hair attached. This visual treat is available in Royal Stuart or Black Watch tartans, or the slightly less popular blue and white Saltire design.

There is even a musical version...press the wee button and it plays Scotland the Brave. Funky.

OK, it's a hat. Who's Jimmy, and why do I see him?

The phrase "See you?" is a charming traditional Scottish preamble to warm and friendly conversation. "Jimmy", due to the popularity of the name James in Scotland's quainter districts, is a sort of John Doe, a wildcard for any random passer-by.

Taken as a whole, "See you, Jimmy" is a warm opening to a folksy chat.

Why would I want one?

It's guaranteed to make any wearer look absolutely gorgeous, sure to be fancied by all you meet. Anyone seeing you in it will think you're rich, sexy, or both.

Available in charming local shops throughout Scotland, or via mail order on many Scottish websites. Go on, you know you want to.



Best wishes with the chemo.......

Jukebox Jury

 

[PregnantForTheLastTime]

See You Jimmy hats.....

It's a Scottish thing
http://www.flickr.com/groups/seeyoujimmy/

So what is it?

A tremendously tasteful souvenir from Scotland, consisting of a tam o'shanter, ornamented with a bobble. To make the wearer look more Scottish, it also has shoulder-length ginger hair attached. This visual treat is available in Royal Stuart or Black Watch tartans, or the slightly less popular blue and white Saltire design.

...

Available in charming local shops throughout Scotland, or via mail order on many Scottish websites. Go on, you know you want to.



Best wishes with the chemo.......

Jukebox Jury

You guys actually wear those? Oh wow...

thank you...

Upon rereading that information, I think that just might be the answer to my problems! I'll just look like I'm wearing a colorful hat!

 

[Morrissey the 23rd]

Thank you. (What's a 'See You Jimmy' hat?)

See You Jimmy hats.....

It's a Scottish thing
http://www.flickr.com/groups/seeyoujimmy/

So what is it?

A tremendously tasteful souvenir from Scotland, consisting of a tam o'shanter, ornamented with a bobble. To make the wearer look more Scottish, it also has shoulder-length ginger hair attached. This visual treat is available in Royal Stuart or Black Watch tartans, or the slightly less popular blue and white Saltire design.

There is even a musical version...press the wee button and it plays Scotland the Brave. Funky.

OK, it's a hat. Who's Jimmy, and why do I see him?

The phrase "See you?" is a charming traditional Scottish preamble to warm and friendly conversation. "Jimmy", due to the popularity of the name James in Scotland's quainter districts, is a sort of John Doe, a wildcard for any random passer-by.

Taken as a whole, "See you, Jimmy" is a warm opening to a folksy chat.

Why would I want one?

It's guaranteed to make any wearer look absolutely gorgeous, sure to be fancied by all you meet. Anyone seeing you in it will think you're rich, sexy, or both.

Available in charming local shops throughout Scotland, or via mail order on many Scottish websites. Go on, you know you want to.



Best wishes with the chemo.......

Jukebox Jury

You said it.

 

[Grim O'Grady]

this bloke is famous over here & gets paid to wear this

Dunno if you've thought of something similar though it's possibly not the most practical head-gear but it would put lots of smiles on peoples faces, even in the most adversity!

love

Grim

 

[iamkali62]

Kate, you are absolutely beautiful. You have the right sized head for a Mia Farrow or Jean Seburg cut. Then it won't be as traumatiic. My friend Amy chose the boycut and it really looked better on her (she had dark wavy long hair and she would get very down when the chemo was starting to make it fall out.) I told she should get a boycut because she had lots of wave in her hair, and so she did. Please don't shave your head. I think the boycut would look stunning on you.

 

[vicarinatutugal]

you are gorgeous, I say go for the mia farrow look

 

[Buzzetta]

I clicked the wrong thing - didn't pay attention much where it said "And"

Shave it and be proud. Don't hide your head. If anyone asks, and is stupid enough to ask in a rude way, tell them - "I have cancer.", because every day that you are walking around with a smile on your face and your head held high is another day you are beating cancer.

Now...

Take it from me...

Mach-5 every day. If you do it in the shower you do not really need a lot or any shaving cream at all if you do not usually get shaving bumps. (I am lucky and I do not). Don't shave it immediately though. Do it in the hot shower and wait a minute for your skin to open up from the hot water.

Yes I do this every day.

Oh and... Join the club...

 

[Morrissey the 23rd]

you are gorgeous, I say go for the mia farrow look

Aww! Shucks! Ta!

 

[PregnantForTheLastTime]

I clicked the wrong thing - didn't pay attention much where it said "And"

Shave it and be proud. Don't hide your head. If anyone asks, and is stupid enough to ask in a rude way, tell them - "I have cancer.", because every day that you are walking around with a smile on your face and your head held high is another day you are beating cancer.

Now...

Take it from me...



Mach-5 every day. If you do it in the shower you do not really need a lot or any shaving cream at all if you do not usually get shaving bumps. (I am lucky and I do not). Don't shave it immediately though. Do it in the hot shower and wait a minute for your skin to open up from the hot water.

Yes I do this every day.

Oh and... Join the club...

Awww... you're making me get all teary eyed. I might just try the bald thing, if it gets to that. I don't know. That's ballsy.

It looks really good on you, though.