Hey, just wondering what you guys think about this:-
Being with someone who's boring or being alone.
Which would you choose?
Hey, just wondering what you guys think about this:-
Being with someone who's boring or being alone.
Which would you choose?
What if you are so boring that you can't spend too much time alone with only yourself for company?
Hey, just wondering what you guys think about this:-
Being with someone who's boring or being alone.
Which would you choose?
yeah i wonder that very often too how much people are open to tolerate being mistreated so they dont have to live alone..whats wrong living alone compared to a RL?
recently my neighbours were having a huge fight.i have a very thin walls as its an old building -i hear neighbours tv running, phone vibratings,lovemaking noises,
i was witnessing their fight recently which went like this :in german of course). he:"im a drugaddict, im unemployed , i cheat on you -why are a you still with me?" she"because i love you!"
wel every person is different, even though you yourself never want to settle for the booty call/mistreat situation like your friend/ for this or like for the situation your friend is in.in the end:its their desicion...friends can talk about it, give advise but in the end its their life how they want to pursue it...
edit: oh your friend story has disappeared...
Girls don't want nice guys. They say they do but what they mean is they want a guy who is nice at times but other times is challenging her. No girl wants to get flowers every day and get text messages every hour. That's not nice. That's needy and clingy and it creates an abundance rather than scarcity.
Let me give you a good example on abundance versus scarcity.
If you hadn't eaten in three days and someone walked by with a bunch of food you like.. a steak or pasta or fruit salad.. you are starving and if you get that food you will think it was the greatest meal ever even if it came from a completely shit restaurant.
Now, if you had just ate a massive meal of your favourite foods and someone walked by with that same tray of food from before you wouldn't have any interest in it.
Being nice loses it's value if it's done in a way that creates too much abundance. Nice is also a very subjective term. Whatever it is that anyone likes in a relationship it is more powerful if we feel like we worked for it and we don't know when we are going to get it as opposed to knowing we had an endless supply.
You don't have to be an asshole to not be a pussy.
There is nothing wrong with being alone. People that get in relationships because they don't like being alone are people who need external validation and don't have any way to realize their own self-worth. People who internally validate themselves not only don't mind being alone, they tend to end up with people anyway because their confidence shows and is a very attractive trait.
Dopple:
Girls don't want nice guys. They say they do but what they mean is they want a guy who is nice at times but other times is challenging her. No girl wants to get flowers every day and get text messages every hour. That's not nice. That's needy and clingy and it creates an abundance rather than scarcity.
Let me give you a good example on abundance versus scarcity.
If you hadn't eaten in three days and someone walked by with a bunch of food you like.. a steak or pasta or fruit salad.. you are starving and if you get that food you will think it was the greatest meal ever even if it came from a completely shit restaurant.
Now, if you had just ate a massive meal of your favourite foods and someone walked by with that same tray of food from before you wouldn't have any interest in it.
Being nice loses it's value if it's done in a way that creates too much abundance. Nice is also a very subjective term. Whatever it is that anyone likes in a relationship it is more powerful if we feel like we worked for it and we don't know when we are going to get it as opposed to knowing we had an endless supply.
You don't have to be an asshole to not be a pussy.
Did you think she was 'the best' at the time?
Hey, just wondering what you guys think about this:-
Being with someone who's boring or being alone.
Which would you choose?
Agreed...There is nothing wrong with being alone. People that get in relationships because they don't like being alone are people who need external validation and don't have any way to realize their own self-worth. People who internally validate themselves not only don't mind being alone, they tend to end up with people anyway because their confidence shows and is a very attractive trait.
Girls don't want nice guys. They say they do but what they mean is they want a guy who is nice at times but other times is challenging her. No girl wants to get flowers every day and get text messages every hour. That's not nice. That's needy and clingy and it creates an abundance rather than scarcity.