Honestly, I have never posted anyplace worse than this.
I don't know what you consider crossing a line regarding Sharon, but I do think the presence of both her and Baz hurt this site. I am going to say Surface too because I saw loads of complaints about him in the moderation thread, all of which went unanswered. I am not sure what the deal is with him but people were complaining he has loads of alts and causes a lot of trouble. I am a huge proponent of free speech, but even free speech has it's limits. I don't know what people get banned for, or put on time outs for here and I am not asking, but there are obviously lines that are crossed that the moderators find unacceptable - so we don't exactly have free speech here. I think there is a huge difference between something you just don't want to see, and violent rape pornography.
I think it does really matter if Morrissey likes this site or not. His name is on it. How can he not see it as just another place where haters use his name to make money. That hardly seems fair. This site isn't even about being a fan, he is bashed all the time here. I have been on other music fan sites and they are not full of negativity, like this one is. I understand the party line here is it's not just for fans, but anything about Morrissey. I can't think of anyone who would be ok with this.
Your last point is one I have been pondering - should fans post here? It's not a fan site. For a long time, I thought it was. Getting into more these past few months than I ever had before, I can see it's definitely not. You get more shit for dissing Johnny Marr than you do Morrissey, but those people won't go and make their own Marr fan site. But if all the Morrissey fans leave, that just leaves the haters and it will just be a complete total hate site about Morrissey.
I think I object to it's existence in it's current form, it can be a lot better and was at one time. Something that started out with good intentions just went really wrong, I think it should be fixed.