Darling, do you need a hug from your favorite politi?People ask, 'what is happiness?' I've had many many instances of unhappiness. Perhaps I'm qualified to talk about unhappiness. I'm 51 and I'd say that the most misery I've ever suffered is when I was overweight. You're constantly living in the future. You say 'when I get thin again, I'll do this and I'll do yhat' I've never been a fat f***er. Don't get me wrong. I've been close. I'd say that as long as you can stay the right shape and partake of a healthy meal you can't go fat wrong. There isn't much in life to tell you how to behave these days. I'd suggest that if you no longer resemble the way a human being should look like and you are infirm on your feet then you are probably eating too much. I'm shooting from a glass tower. My problem is drink. I'm as culpibke as you. The difference is that I can sober up in a few days. Me being drunk doesn't compare to you being fat. You'll still be fat tomorrow. Whereas ill be (slightly) sober tomorrow. People begrudge me drinking too much. Overeating, overdrinkimg. What does it matter? All of us do something to excess to get through. I happen to drink brandy.