OK!
So I am trying my best here to not judge him and see it from his side and he is very emotionally invested because of what happened when he was 17. I believe and hope he doesn't think that all straight men are like those boys or men that attacked him.
I feel like he has changed after a turbulent year just like I have, I still see it as him defending Rifke and for all we know her situation might be way worse than we realise and he is probably aware of that.
I just don't want him and me to go on like before cause who knows if that stress made him sick and it's not been great for me either to have that negativity in my life. I wonder why we the fans of Moz end up hating one another so much and we really live up to the dysfunctional myth that we've always had which by the looks of it is true.
There is loads of fun on this board and I wish that could dominate more. I believe we have far more in common than what separates us. I just feel like we can be better as people and at least try to understand.
I was beat up bad too in 1989 and spent a week in a coma which was a mix of a beating followed by a suicide attempt where I later was told I was very close to dying when I arrived at intensive care. In my case that did not bother me much for others it can cause great trauma and 12 inch was of course attacked because he is gay and must have felt since that day that some people out there hate him cause of that and even want to beat him up or worse.
His trauma and Rifke's trauma is real which doesn't give them the right to attack people here but maybe we can let it sink in what they have been through and handle them with that in mind.
I am the last person to play some sort of mediator here but I feel the time is right to put things behind us and move on. We can at least try and you Bhops is not to blame for anything cause you haven't been hostile or anywhere near the worst example on here but right now you ended up being the one they attack and call names.
What the f*** is going on here?
