I agree with every single word.trans insanity: the denial of reality and what we all know to be true; pronoun stupidity; children being removed from their homes because their parents 'misgendered' them; the erasure of women with transwomen being allowed to compete in womens sports and women being called menstruators and cervix-havers rather than women; jk rowling receiving death threats for her very rational views and those death threats being allowed to remain on twitter, while stating something as innocuous as 'sex is real' will get you banned; transitioning children and performing life altering surgeries on them; transitioning as a form of conversion therapy; etc etc etc.
i remember when i thought men dressing like women was cool, back when appealing people like david bowie and dr frankenfurter were the only ones doing it. back when it was outre, and signified a transgression against the norm. now that every unappealing person and their dog is doing it, it's just f***ing gross.
About 5 years ago I met some feminists on FB and we talked about this and they asked me to join their groups where they talked about this. I was really shocked at what I learned, there were a lot of death threats on twitter at that time because these trans were extremely angry lesbians would not date them. They thought they were entitled to women's bodies, it was all very rapey. That of course, is just one of the problems.
When I was younger I used to go to alternative (as in alternative music) and gay clubs and there would be cross dressers and I assume transgenders and the bathroom issue was just no big deal, everyone used the one they wanted to and no one was bothered, but that was also because no one was pushy and threatening; everyone was comfortable. So, this is not a matter of transphobia or whatever people want to call it, it's all about how trans are acting now, and it's threatening. Before, they seemed to respect decent boundaries.