I was looking for Ellman's biography the other day and, as it wasn't in stock, I chose another biography written in 2000, called "The Unmasking of Oscar Wilde' by Joseph Pearce. It corrects some errors in Ellmann's and other's accounts. One of the main ideas is this book is that Wilde's life-long thwarted interest in the church is critical to understanding him. Wilde's mother, it seemed on a whim, got him and his brother baptised as Catholics when they were children but she didn't pursue it anymore. His father William was so much against him becoming a Papist that he threatened to disinherit his son in Trinity and Oxford when he sounded out the temptation of a conversion, something which had become fashionable at the time.
Also, the family took great pains to underplay the fact that a relation on William's side, a Dutch colonel, had fought with William of Orange and Oliver Cromwell to brutally subdue the Irish, but really, despite Speranza's patriotic fervour, there was no getting away from their fortunate social position as members of the wealthy Anglo-Irish ruling aristocracy who generally looked down on, and employed the peasants as servants, farm-labourers etc, most of whom were Catholic.
Another major event in his young life described in the book occured when he was 10. -
"In 1864, Wilde [Oscar's father] was knighted, but his reputation suffered when Mary Travers, a long-term patient of his and the daughter of a colleague, claimed that he had seduced her two years earlier[2]. She wrote a pamphlet crudely parodying Wilde and Lady Wilde as Dr and Mrs Quilp, and portraying Dr Quilp as the rapist of a female patient anaesthetized under chloroform. She handed these out outside the building where Wilde was about to give a public lecture. Lady Wilde complained to Mary's father, Robert Travers, which resulted in Mary bringing a libel case against her. Mary Travers won her case but was awarded a mere farthing in damages by the jury. Legal costs of £2000 were awarded against Lady Wilde. The case was the talk of all Dublin, and Wilde's refusal to enter the witness box during the trial was widely held against him as ungentlemanly behaviour." -
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/William_Wilde
As if predicting drama, Oscar and his brother had been shipped off to boarding school in the county of Fermanagh before the case came to court, but years later, when Oscar entered Trinity, a popular lewd song about the rumoured scandel was still to be heard and wouldn't have gone unnoticed. The first verse was -
"An eminent oculist lives in the Square.
His skill is unrivalled, his talent is rare.
And if you will listen I'll certainly try,
To tell how he opened Miss Traver's eye"
(which reminds me slightly of 'What She Said')
I think that's quite a spooky episode in his background, given what was to transpire in his own life. Trouble loved him.