CrystalGeezer
My secret's my enzyme.
On the Homozeroerotism or however you spell it thread, there is an attempt to define what homosexual is. THen that conversation spills into relationships and how once you define a sexuality then you have to define a relationship or some such thing, I dunno.
Here's my deal and call me old fashioned.
Whether I'm gay, straight, Bi, a plushy or furry or WHATEVER, there is some part of me that feels incomplete unless I am nurturing another person and being nurtured by them. In the recovery phase of having been in a shittay relationship, I do that even in my brain. I want to be with someone and I can't imagine not wanting to be with someone.
Is this because I'm codependant? Is it because I am around people in relationships who canoodle and cuddle and gah gah over each other and I see that and want it too? Is it because I've never really felt I've belonged to anyone with love? What's the deal? I can't fathom a life where I say, "Meh, we can be together if you want. Whatever. I'm just gonna go bone this other person now. Seeya next week?"
Any thoughts?
Here's my deal and call me old fashioned.
Whether I'm gay, straight, Bi, a plushy or furry or WHATEVER, there is some part of me that feels incomplete unless I am nurturing another person and being nurtured by them. In the recovery phase of having been in a shittay relationship, I do that even in my brain. I want to be with someone and I can't imagine not wanting to be with someone.
Is this because I'm codependant? Is it because I am around people in relationships who canoodle and cuddle and gah gah over each other and I see that and want it too? Is it because I've never really felt I've belonged to anyone with love? What's the deal? I can't fathom a life where I say, "Meh, we can be together if you want. Whatever. I'm just gonna go bone this other person now. Seeya next week?"
Any thoughts?