I think I understand what you mean though. But, I noticed that the black girls in elementary school had a more fun vibe than other ethnicities. Keith School, all the black girls hung out exclusively together, and I admired them from outside their circle.
Then when I was moved to a different school, I only had two friends, both black. Yemisi, and Judy. Yemisi and I would dance to my Star Wars record, and eat plantain her mother would cook for us. Judy was a latchkey kid, and became a stuck up stripper. I don't know what Yemisi ended up doing, because I got moved to a foster home far away and the father was abusive, which upset my social life tremendously.