cosmo (yes that damn magazine) is ruining my relationship with my girlfriend

bagface

Member
any variation on the word learn should never be used anywhere near cosmo.



1. he has a stash of porn


my f***ing god. i hate that magazine.
 

Cassius

New Member
If something like a magazine can ruin your relationship I really hope you don't live together. I'm not trying to be mean, but it's just a magazine. Seriously.
 
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yesitis

Guest
any variation on the word learn should never be used anywhere near cosmo.
what about "learning anything from reading cosmopolitan is a hard task as the magazine is full of vapid nonsense."?
 

Arsenal

Why Me?
So what?

Do what you want to do, within reason, and she does the same.

I'm sure you read things that may bother her. If you like porn, go for it. If it bothers her that much, remind her the door is over there and to use it anytime she wants.

A relationship, in my opinion, should be two people doing their own things and co-existing, and not constantly looking over each others shoulders and bitching about the magazines they read or the porn they watch. That isn't a life, that is hell.
 

Cassius

New Member
yes but porn is still just magazines and that could conceivably ruin a relationship. it's what the magazine signifies...i don't read the frat boy monthly featuring a guide to date raping chicks or something because it's awfully offensive. i would just hope that she would have more sense and respect than that...and you don't think that what a person reads is any reflection of their personality?
Not always. Sometimes it's just curiousity.

Honestly, it appears you have more of an issue with your girlfriend than you do with what she reads. Have you talked to her about it?
 

Zelda Zonk

New Member
haha well if it's too much to ask that i find someone that shares my points of view then i guess "i will live my life as i will undoubtedly die-alone" ;) but really..
yeah, but surely she doesn't take everything written in it as fact? It's mere curiosity, as another poster said, hopefully.
You know she's not that dumb or superficial.
 

Arsenal

Why Me?
so if she starts getting pamphlets from the KKK i'm just supposed to say oh that's okay it's your business, you're still great.



it's not just a magazine, it's a magazine for f***ing idiots and i'd rather not be with somebody who is in to all of that.
You do what you feel is right.

If her having views of white supremacy bothers you, then dump her ass. If her finding sexism funny and being into a sexist magazine like Cosmo bothers you, then that's YOUR problem, not hers. If it bothers you that much, leave.

You cannot change others, nor should you try, but you can control what YOU do and how YOU act.

Honestly, man. If it really pisses you off that much, tell her about it. If she wants to read her damn magazines and do other stuff that pisses you off, then really... you are probably with the wrong girl.
 

bagface

Member
You do what you feel is right.

If her having views of white supremacy bothers you, then dump her ass. If her finding sexism funny and being into a sexist magazine like Cosmo bothers you, then that's YOUR problem, not hers. If it bothers you that much, leave.

You cannot change others, nor should you try, but you can control what YOU do and how YOU act.

Honestly, man. If it really pisses you off that much, tell her about it. If she wants to read her damn magazines and do other stuff that pisses you off, then really... you are probably with the wrong girl.


that's a completely sensible answer and i agree.
 

Cassius

New Member
haha well if it's too much to ask that i find someone that shares my points of view then i guess "i will live my life as i will undoubtedly die-alone" ;) but really..
it's not just a magazine, it's a magazine for f***ing idiots and i'd rather not be with somebody who is in to all of that.
I think you are being too picky. Relationships are give and take. I imagine you do some things she doesn't like, whether she mentions it or not. Like Arsenal said, you are each supposed to do your own thing. If the worst thing she does is read a magazine you aren't fond of then you should consider yourself very lucky.
 
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