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I wish this world would be less hung up about the issue in the year 2006, really.
 
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The main reason why people think that a guy proclaiming he is bi have to be gay is simply the fact that it is often the first step to acceptance of his homosexuality

I guess bisexuality exists though
 
lilikoi said:
But I have read some of those threads in the archives out of sheer interest in the bi issue.
And I found nothing but stereotypical thinking. Everyone seems so concerned with gay or not gay - but bi seems to be something that doesn't really exist in this world.
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You obviousely havent' read my posts on the issue ;)
 
lilikoi said:
intersting thought. so someone like for example brian molko should say he's gay even though he has a girfriend and a child? well, he'd by lying.
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You missed an important word in my answer : often

And, by the way, a lot of gay men, describing themselves as totally gay, once were married and had children - there are just plenty of them among my past lovers
 
From personal experience I know that Bisexuality in guys does exist.. I've had two Bi men who wanted to begin a relationship with me[male] a few years back.....both were straight acting with girlfriends and all, but they just couldn't be satisfied with just them so they seeked me out......They were so cute and nice to me but I dont' play seconds to anyone so nothing ever happened and my virginity remained intact {thank god}

I'm convinced that it exists in both male and female......these guys weren't the closet type who just wanted to cover up by going out with girls.....one of them was a total sex pig who enjoyed telling me about his sex life with his girl.....he really liked girls and even had a collection of lesbo & straight porn. Unless they happend to be completely straight guys who just couldn't resist my good looks......Bisexuality has to be real.
 
This is what fascinates me most:

gay Morrissey fans think that he's gay
hetero M. fans.......................... hetero
bi M.fans................................. bi
asexual M. fans......................... asexual

:D
 
for some reason, it seems female bisexuality is more accepted by society (in fact it seems to be positively encouraged, e.g. a trend a couple of years ago for women on hen nights about to marry men was to hire female lap dancers! not to mention the fact that all women in music videos/porn movies (same thing!) seem to be bisexual too.) but male bisexuality is not, people seem to assume men are simply either gay or straight whereas women are seen as "complicated" compared to men (not just in sex but in general) and can be asexual or bisexual, not just gay or straight.
as for his sexuality... i dont know anything about it myself, but i guess it's not impossible for him for be bisexual. not saying that i think he is (who knows what he is?), just saying that you cant rule it out.
 
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theres an interview from this year where they ask him if he's gay, staight or bi and he says none of them. Obviously he's not straight but he's said often he's not gay and I think if he was gay he'd just say that was his business instead of lying. Pansexual anyone?:)
 
lilikoi said:
as far as Morrissey I really don't want him to be anything particular at all - why would I? But I did read interviews and he says he likes both men and women - so I do not understand why his fans don't believe that but have all these discussions about it. Why would he lie? Do you believe he secretly eats meat and wears fur coats? Hopefully not.
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That is exactly what I have tried to say before. People consider it to still be a secret just because he hasn't put a label on his sexuality He has said he likes men, he has said he likes women. What more do people want to know? Why is it so important for people to know "but is he gay? Is he bi? What is he?"
 
This always ends up with the question about Moz himself innit. To answer. I'm one of those dying species that thinks he's bi (source his songs). But what do I know.
 
lnathan said:
That is exactly what I have tried to say before. People consider it to still be a secret just because he hasn't put a label on his sexuality He has said he likes men, he has said he likes women. What more do people want to know? Why is it so important for people to know "but is he gay? Is he bi? What is he?"
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I agree 100%.
 
Johan de Witt said:
Surely no one seriously thinks Morrissey is hetero!?
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At least one person in here really does think that. (see quotes below) Just honestly helping to answer Johan's question.
From the "if morrissey came out?" thread:


[email protected] said:
My personal opinion is and has always been that Morrissey is very straight and that the homosexual image he has portrayed is for PR purposes. I dont want to come across as saying he is a fake, he is far from a fake. I do believe that he has difficulties with relationships and doesnt put much into the idea of sex or a sexual relationship. Perhaps he even prefers the company of men over women, but I think at the end of the day, Morrissey would prefer sex with women. I met a a couple guys in Paris, at a Cure concert in 89. they were from Manchester and said they spotted Morrissey at the flea markets all the time, often with some beautiful woman. They said he was a big flirt and they always acted as more then just pals. Beofre I get blasted by the homosexual posters for trying to ruin their dreams, let me say that I admire Morrissey for being so open and frank about sexuality. Regardless of his motives or his own orientation, he has really shined a light on the the subject of homo vs. hetero, and the importance of sex & love in and out of relationships. It has allowed to me know that George Clooney is a pretty good looking guy without questioning my heterosexuality. It allowed me to wait awhile before having sex, and waiting awhile before getting into a life long commitment(now married w/ 3 kids). So I dont want to come across like some homophobic prick. Again, IMO, Morrissey is staright as they come, but in the end, as other posters have mentioned, it really doesnt matter.
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strange? why is is it starnge. its just an opinion. My opinion is that he is completely straight. And again, I'm not being antagonistic about it, nor do I care what he is. I have many gay friends, male and female, so I'm not putting myself out there as some homophobe who would dislike him if he was gay. It doesnt and wouldnt matter to me. I didnt start the poll. I It was asked by someone else what would happen if he came out, and I'm basically saying I would be very shocked because again, IMO, he is straight. But do tell me what is so strange about my suggestions. I dont get that.
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I apologize Jo, I thought you said that but my memory often plays tricks on me.

And good to see you back, no one in particular!!!
 
I think sexuality is variable thing. So many possibilities … a continuum if you like.
Some people settle for one thing because it’s right for them. Others change over time. For some it simply depends on the person they want to be with. Some like both men and women…

I don’t want to define myself as “n” because that limits my possibilities. It also perpetuates the idea in this society that you have to be one or the other. You don’t. Definitions are not important, people are. So long as you are happy with who you are that’s enough.
 
left out said:
I think sexuality is variable thing. So many possibilities … a continuum if you like.
Some people settle for one thing because it’s right for them. Others change over time. For some it simply depends on the person they want to be with. Some like both men and women…

I don’t want to define myself as “n” because that limits my possibilities. It also perpetuates the idea in this society that you have to be one or the other. You don’t. Definitions are not important, people are. So long as you are happy with who you are that’s enough.
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I wish more peolpe would think like that.
 
I think it all comes down to acceptance of difference doesn't it? And not just difference that can be neatly packaged into a PC box to make us all feel safe.
 
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