Beware of Viva Hate

Dude, I'm not out to get you. I yammer on about tarot all the time. It's part of my shtick here, symbolism. Ask anyone, look at my history. You don't have to post my tits. :squiffy:

Just everyone let's be calm. Geez. :rolleyes:
 
Skylarker said:
I should have learned my lesson a few years ago when he f***ed me over the first time, forming a "friendship" with me online so that he could procure information from me about certain individuals that I had and he wanted...and when he succeeded in duping me, which wasn't hard as I was slightly more gullible back then, he wrote to me to inform me he had "used me" all along. This hurt me even though he was just some kid in Florida who spends all day on his computer, but I had let myself get tricked because he is very charming...just like Ted Bundy was charming.

Years pass and you get desperate and you start to willfully forget things about people that it would be in your best interests to remember. This time around on Solo I let bygones be bygones and, hoping and assuming he had matured, I let him in again.

Without going into detail as to why, this was a HUGE mistake.

This guy is manipulative, two-faced, and totally destructive. Do not trust him. Be very careful what you say to him, especially in private messages. He will forward your emails, manipulate your words, skew contexts, and play you against other people if he feels something can be gained from it.

Bottom line with this guy: if he sees you as harmless, you're fine. But if he sees you as a threat, or if he can get something out of you, he will go out of his way to bring you down.

He recently sent me (unsolicited) a picture of a longterm female member's breasts that he had gotten (unbeknownst to the member) from her flickr account, bragging to me about his ability to do this, and telling me that he saw her as a threat because he perceived "that she did not like him." He planned to post this picture publicly in the event she caused him any significant grief.

This is the kind of person this character is. When I first signed on here as Skylarker, I was using an avatar of a picture of a good friend of mine, a woman who does not post here. It wasn't to deceive anyone, I just like the picture. Anyway, Viva began effusively contacting me and trying to form a friendship, and when he found out who I was he became very disgruntled; because, as he later confessed, he had "hoped to get some noods" from me when he thought I was a woman.

I'm on the verge of getting banned here (he's also been manipulating the site admin against me) so I have little to lose by posting this; it'll be my last post.

Watch out for this guy. He's f***ed up...and not "interesting" f***ed up...just plain f***ed up. I can't believe I let him to get to me again.

I have nothing to gain or lose by posting this: as I said, I'm gonna get banned anyway. This is for the rest of you. Watch your ass around this guy. He's very lonely, very bitter, and very intelligent, and that's a bad combination.
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CrystalGeezer said:
You don't have to post my tits. :squiffy:
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honestly Skylarker, until reading your post above, I just assumed you were "Viva Hate" :o
some other people have even messaged me asking me about such :eek:
they were under the mistaken impression that since I am one of his obsessions on this site :rolleyes:
that I know all about him, I don't, honestly, I remember little about him from before he was banned(we all thought for good, since you know, he literally came back for years after that :straightface:)
however, I shall take what you have written under advisement and leave him on my ignore list :thumb:


ps: yes, I do sometimes see his posts but it is only for the small amount of time I come to the site before I have logged in
however, should you read him trolling me in some way, feel free to report it for me since well, I don't see his posts very often :thumb:
 
I was going to ignore this, but in light of certain PMs I've received after this post, I feel this is something that needs to be addressed...

All of this crap from Skylarker stems from something that happened 5 years ago that he can't let go...and it all came to a head the last few nights.
Six years ago I was friendly with Skylarker, also known as The Bicycle Tragedy also known as 20 other banned names on this forum. He and I were in contact constantly over on Myspace. For over a year and a half I dealt with his constant whining about his father, ex-wife and kid, about how he was jobless, about how he hasn't had sex and years and doubts he will again, and how he is drunken all the time. If his blogs on this site are still up, go take a look at them. I dealt with THAT almost nightly for a year and a half. A year and a half of pretentious multiple 8 paragraph messages a night that I was expected to play analyst over. I was supposed to give him solutions to his problems. Solutions he never listened to anyway. If I didn't respond to the message soon enough, I was attacked in a drunken rage. If I didn't answer him as he felt I should have, I was attacked in a drunken rage. If he even imagined I had slighted him in any way, I was attacked in a drunken rage. All these attacks came with equally long apologies...but he wasn't sorry enough to stop doing it, evidently. During the year and a half we were in contact, I trusted him enough to share personal trauma...trauma other members both past and present are aware of...I'm looking at you nothappynotsad, nugz, Kuiper, DAnn Coulter, Virtually Dead, and Robby (who posted it on the forum for all to see 4 years ago.) After sharing this with him however, he started to incorporate it into his drunken insults and I had enough of it. I broke off contact with him, and, in an effort to save face, I told him everything I had ever said to him was lie. Of course, if you take Skylarker's crazed word for it, I stuck with him for a year and a half just to get a Kristeen Young demo out of him! :lbf:

After I cut Skylarker out of my life, he continued to write and message me on Myspace, AIM, and AOL for the next number of years...seesawing between fellating my ego and character assassination in each message. I honestly believe the man must be seriously bipolar...and he should seek immediate medical attention. Anyway, he harassed me so much I stopped using Myspace and AIM altogether and even STILL block any personal account from any contact by people I have not handpicked to be on my friend's list. Shocking, I know, I'm a human being with real friends off this site. I'm a normal person who yes, went to High School, and yes, graduated from college, and yes, works 8 hours a day. It may be hard for you all to believe, but it is a fact. And no, I'm not a 39 year old librarian...either. I am not the person I am on this forum in real life. I'm not even that way in PMs or chat on this site. Anyone with any bit of sense knows I'm not even serious the majority of the time on this forum.

Anyway, back to Skylarker. I was allowed back to this site by Davidt. A short time later, this "Skylarker" character started following me around the forum replying to my posts unprovoked...I even got in a few arguments with them - go back and look, you'll see it yourself. Then they started messaging me...actually pretending to be a female. A month went by and over that time I felt we were semi-friends. Eventually, I started to feel deja vu...the way they wrote, the things they liked, I knew I had met them before. I eventually figured it out and point blank asked them if they were the Bicycle Tragedy. Eventually, they said yes and I ignored them. However, he kept messaging me some more, so I thought since I got along with him so well before when I thought he was someone else, maybe I should give him a second chance. Maybe, just maybe, he had changed. WRONG!

Over the last few weeks Skylarker had been becoming more erratic. He would attack me in PMs, he would claim I was attacking him and threaten to leave the site (which he obviously never did). Things seemed to get worse with him when nothappynotsad started talking to me. It was alright for him when he had me and her...but when she started talking to me, he began to get extremely jealous that I put her before him. Of course I did, she wasn't a psychopath who attacked me behind the scenes every other minutes...she was *gasp* a normal person! The fact she's a woman has nothing to do with it...I even put Toaster ahead of Skylarker and he's a man with the avatar of a gay porn star! Lol.

Two nights ago (or is it three now?) Davidt messaged me with a warning that concerned banning...I won't go into specifics, because if it were a public matter, it would have been posted publicly. While I was having a back and forth with him, I was also in chat with Skylarker and Nothappynotsad. Skylarker was talking to her in a PM, and she was talking to me in a PM...because he wasn't talking to me, I informed her of the situation. However, the fact I wasn't talking to him caused him to get massively paranoid and start going on a crazy rant at her claiming I was talking about him behind his back and forwarding bits of conversation and PMs to her. Ask her yourself. Of course, if he never said anything about her like he claims, what would there be to forward her? Hmm. Anyway, also, nothappynotsad and Skylarker made similar comments to me about feeling they were being blacklisted by other members because of their association with me...nothappynotsad specifically mentioned the name of CrystalGeezer (she thought CG didn't like her) and I assured her that wasn't the case because I had talked with CG that same night and I elaborated on what we had discussed in out PMs. That is how Skylarker knows about CG once having a flickr account that was hacked and that a personal picture of her was subsequently used to troll her. It is because I blabbed it in confidence to ease tension and paranoia...not because I am some evil person who collects personal info on people. That is nonsense.

Anyway, later that same night he sent me his final long crazy message and disappeared...then, the next day, he apologized for it. In response to his apology I informed him that "if this was the type of bullshit I'm to expect from him, don't bother contacting me ever again." After that, he removed both nothappynotsad and I from his friend's list and proceeded to make this thread...depicted himself as the selfless white knight and me the wicked witch of the swamp. The fact of the matter is, he is only on this forum because of me...and he'll continue to be on this forum, in spite of all the claims he is leaving, because of me...because he is obsessed with me. My guess is, he only made up those lies about me and CG because realistically, CG is the only other person other than nothappynotsad that he talks to, so in an effort to damn me and look the hero, he claims this to her...because she is the only one who will have him.
You can decide whatever you like from this. I wash my hands of this topic and will be putting Skylarker on IGNORE, so keep that in mind when you see him continuing to beat a dead horse and no response is issued from me...I'm not going to give you want you want. I pray that some people on here have the clarity to separate my "attitude" from their judgment of what is truth and what is fiction.

On a final note, if you don't believe Skylarker is obsessed with me, read this comment from him...and try to rationalize it.

Skylarker said:
Yes that did piss me off. I didn't mind her knowing, but knowing before me...I felt slighted by you. I felt like your partner, as it were, and she telling me rather than you was like finding out from your neighbor that some guy was f***ing your wife after you left for work.
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I'm his "partner"?! Comparing me and the situation to his wife?! Seriously?!
 
Wouldn't that be weird if they were the same person? One person playing good cop/bad cop with an entire message board? That would be a huge commitment though, to organize the personalities, but it;s an easy way to stroke your own ego if nobody else is stroking it, or to stoke fires to test the commitment of certain members for recruitment into their imaginary army. It's like the scenario movies are made of. :D Luckily I don't think either skylarker or vivahate have the smarts or patience to pull that off though. There's something genuine about them.
 
CrystalGeezer said:
Wouldn't that be weird if they were the same person? One person playing good cop/bad cop with an entire message board? That would be a huge commitment though, to organize the personalities, but it;s an easy way to stroke your own ego if nobody else is stroking it, or to stoke fires to test the commitment of certain members for recruitment into their imaginary army. It's like the scenario movies are made of. :D Luckily I don't think either skylarker or vivahate have the smarts or patience to pull that off though. There's something genuine about them.
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I have the patience of Job...but you don't need smarts to do that. You just need to be an absolute loon. There are (or were) actually a handful of users on here who have done the very thing you mentioned. Imaginary army? This is a message board...if anyone feels like they are "building an army", they take the internet WAY too seriously.
 
!Viva Hate! said:
I have the patience of Job...but you don't need smarts to do that. You just need to be an absolute loon. There are (or were) actually a handful of users on here who have done the very thing you mentioned. Imaginary army? This is a message board...if anyone feels like they are "building an army", they take the internet WAY too seriously.
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I didn't mean to insinuate you aren't smart, I was just talking silly hypotheticals. Right now I'm wondering who would play me in Solo:The Movie. :p I'm thinking Whoopie Goldberg.
 
CrystalGeezer said:
I didn't mean to insinuate you aren't smart, I was just talking silly hypotheticals. Right now I'm wondering who would play me in Solo:The Movie. :p I'm thinking Whoopie Goldberg.
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I didn't even think anything of it...until you just mentioned it, that is! Lol.

Nonsense...Whoopi wouldn't work because she shaves off her eyebrows and you don't.
 
Okay then, Kate Winslet. :love:
 
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