Best friend break-ups

[Cassius]

Post your best friend break up stories here!

I broke up with my best friend when after my fiance and I helped her move three times, leave an abusive relationship, get into school, fed her, bought her minutes for her phone, let her live with me, and gave her money, she still thought it was an okay idea to flirt with my fiance and then trash-talk him to me, never paid me back, told me that I never cared about her, and acted like a pig when she stayed with us. f***ing whore.

Oh, and how could I forget--she flirted with my FATHER-IN-LAW, who has been happily married for twenty-something years to my fiance's mother.

 

[Cassius]

Come on, please tell me someone else is as bad of a door mat as me.

 

[CrystalGeezer]

She sounds like a drama queen. You did the right thing.

I've never really broken up with a friend. Things have fizzled out but that's about it.

 

[JoyDiv007]

I had a friend ditch me because she was made that I didn't like things that she did. I hate American Idol, the singer Meatloaf, and other stuff. Was told I'm the meanest person on the planet who is always making fun of her. She's weird and I could care less.

 

[troubleluvsme]

Come on, please tell me someone else is as bad of a door mat as me.

Didn't you just go through that like a year or so ago?
Wow....you did the right thing. Some people will never appreciate how much you try to help.

 

[Cassius]

Didn't you just go through that like a year or so ago?
Wow....you did the right thing. Some people will never appreciate how much you try to help.

It was the same person too. I am too much of a push-over and let people take advantage of me.

 

[LuvMozzy]

my best friend and I were best friends from the ages of 3 to 19. we were so close that if we didn't get put in the same class at school, our parents would swap us into the others class. Everywhere I went people would expect to see her. She was literally my other half. We even went to the same 6th form college unlike all of our other friends who stayed on at school (we didn't fancy wearing uniform for another 2 years).
She then started going out with some really straight, boring person who decreed me a 'bad influence'. Not sure how; I went off to university, whilst she quit college before even taking her exams and got a job in a bank. I wrote her letters pleading with her to still be friends with me, citing our history and everything else. She ignored me.
Then came the fateful day I saw her in Spinadisc, the local record shop (if you come from the same town as me, you'll know it well, RIP). She was with him, and they both blanked me. I walked out the shop crying. Then I thought, 'f*** this, am I really going to let this be how it ends?' So I went back in, tapped her on the shoulder and said words , 'I hate you, i wish you'd never been born and I hope you f***ing die.' Then I left. It was the best thing I ever did. I felt absolved.
She's still working in that f***ing bank, in the same town we grew up in. We had plans; to move to London, to do this and that. I actually did them.

 

[LuvMozzy]

Post your best friend break up stories here!

I broke up with my best friend when after my fiance and I helped her move three times, leave an abusive relationship, get into school, fed her, bought her minutes for her phone, let her live with me, and gave her money, she still thought it was an okay idea to flirt with my fiance and then trash-talk him to me, never paid me back, told me that I never cared about her, and acted like a pig when she stayed with us. f***ing whore.

Oh, and how could I forget--she flirted with my FATHER-IN-LAW, who has been happily married for twenty-something years to my fiance's mother.

This is very sad, but don't call women whores, it's unbecoming.

 

[Freda]

My best friend was actually my classmate, we shared so many great moments together, and at the school graduation party we wept and promised not to forget each other and keep in touch and etc. But she went to study in another country, when we saw each other some time later and I realised she's changed a lot (well, perhaps, that's alright, but the changes were not for the better) and after that she simply broke up with me as well as with all other our friends/classmates making it clear she's too "cool" for us. Pfft. I was much more unpleasantly suprised, than disappointed, I must say.

 

[MindlessRuffian]

I don't consider people who f***ed me over friends on any level. I don't consider them former friends, because they were never really friends to begin with. Like the old straight edge adage: If you aren't straight edge now, then you never were.

 

[LuvMozzy]

I don't consider people who f***ed me over friends on any level. I don't consider them former friends, because they were never really friends to begin with. Like the old straight edge adage: If you aren't straight edge now, then you never were.

But someone's behaviour doesn't erase your history with them; no matter how much they want to pretend it does; I mean, I have enough photographic evidence, I didn't dream 15 years of friendship.

 

[Disappointed]

Well, before my first year of college, people from the college assigned me and another girl as roommates. I met her, and talked to her, for the first time on the day that we both moved in to the dorm.

From that point on, we were roommates and best friends until the middle of our junior year. Her parents fell in love with me and my family--I would go on vacations with them, even.

Suddenly, sometime during our junior year, she stopped talking to me. Why, I don't know. But, we lived together for weeks without even saying "Hi" to each other. If such a thing had started now, I would never have allowed it to happen. I don't know why I allowed it to happen then. Anyway, finally, I missed her so much that, one evening, as she was on her computer, headphones on, I went up to her and asked her, "Doesn't it bother you that we don't talk to each other any more?" She replied, coldly, "No, not really."

I started sobbing, and had to leave the room, and go to the dorm common room. I cried for I don't know how long--probably at least an hour. My roommate never came out to see how I was doing, and didn't apologize.

A couple of days later, she moved out of our room, and into a single dorm room. I have a strong feeling that she had been planning to move out for quite a while, though, of course, she never told me that she was going to.

Her parents are still good friends with me and my family--we see them maybe once a year or so now, since they live rather far away. My former roommate still barely talks to me when I see them, and she has never told me why she broke off our friendship. Her mother even hasn't told me or my mother why. To this day, I still have no idea.

 

[Cassius]

This is very sad, but don't call women whores, it's unbecoming.

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to offend and you are right, I should have used a different word.

 

[Raphael Lambach]

I broke up w/ a frined of mine 'cause he was romancing my gal.

 

[Skinner]

This is long but worth the read:

My senior year in college I got a house off campus with 2 of my close friends. 1 being a sweet and tender gay boy who I still think is great, and the other who had been my best friend for about 2 years. The 2 years previous to us living in the same house together, we did everything together. Had dinner every night, had a radio show together, hung out every day. I also became quite close to her family and went home with her a number of times on weekends and hung out with her whole family, all of whom treated me quite nicely.

Once we started living under the same roof, things became difficult. The rent was split 3 ways between the 3 roommates, but this girl’s boyfriend started staying over every single night. Then he started showing up all the time when she was still at work. Meaning, he had a key and was not paying rent. Myself and my other roommate confronted her about this and that’s when things started to get ugly. She slowly started alienating the 2 of us and eventually stopped speaking to us. Our communication eventually was limited to bills that we would stick on the fridge with notes saying who owed what etc.

Her gross boyfriend however, used to turn the heat up so high in the wintertime so he could walk around comfortably in shorts and a tshirt. Like a dumbass. And the oil bill happened to be in my name. There was a discrepancy as the oil bill one month and she deiced not to pay her share which my mother eventually had to pay so they didn’t shut our oil off. Myself and the 3rd roommate at this time, discontinued paying electric which was in her name. This went on for about 2 month until one night myself and the good roomie arrived home to find the electricity to be out in our portion of the upstairs meaning our bedrooms and our bathroom. She removed the fuse for that part of the house from the fuse box. I called the landlord, poor guy lived next door and didn’t need this drama but needed to know. There was a large fight in the basement next to the fuse box and I got in her face and yelled at her for the first and last time. She gave up the fuse. We didn’t speak after that.

Other friends of mine later decided I should become the worlds shittiest roommate so I did, a little bit. Her and her stupid boyfriend would monopolize the living room which I never ended up using. So on certain nights I knew she would be home later, I would have a living room full of people over, and we would watch porn on her tv/dvd player. She was quite prude so she hated this haha.

Another time, I had a going away party for my Irish buddy on a weeknight and didn’t tell her. That was funny. But one of the best jokes (this was not my idea but I did go along with it)…She was obsessed with Robin Williams (why Idk) and owned most of his films on dvd. One day while she was out, a mischievous friend of mine came over and he decided to bring a porn magazine with him for this joke. (yeah so in college my friends and I found porn hilarious, big deal).
We proceeded to cut out small pictures of various disgusting genitalia, and put them inside every single Robin Williams dvd that she had. (under the disc so she would have to remove the disc to find each one)

About a month later I received a very angry voicemail from her telling me that I was going to be hearing from the police about the fact that I defaced her property with porn and telling me I was a child etc. I saved the message, and laughed hysterically every time I played it for someone. I saved her in my caller id as “YOU DON’T BATHE” so when I saw her number calling one that fateful evening, I knew to let it go to voicemail. That is the end.

Edit: This final joke was played while I was moving out at the end of the school year. I technically was still on the lease for 2 months after that. About 6 weeks later, I went back to the house to get some mail that I knew was there for me, and she had changed the locks. Which technically she did not have the right to do considering my name was still on the lease for that time period. She eventually realized myself and a friend were bangning on the back door trying to get them to answer it, and she stuck her head out of the upstairs window asking me to leave. The friend I had with me demanded my mail, which the bitch claims wasn't there, to which my friend proceeded to curse her out and point out that she is clearly the child in the situation. That was the actual end.

 

[kimmy sticks]

Skinner, I am sure that the situation sucked at the time and I don't want to laugh at your misfortune but that is hilarious!! At least in the end you could laugh about it too eh?

 

[Skinner]

Skinner, I am sure that the situation sucked at the time and I don't want to laugh at your misfortune but that is hilarious!! At least in the end you could laugh about it too eh?

It's a damn shame it ended up coming to the childish end that it did. Normally I would have NEVER let anyone talk me into retaliating in the ways that I did. I usually just roll over and take the abuse of others. But for that person/situation I am VERY glad that I did what I did.

 

[Daddy Cool]

I usually just roll over and take the abuse of others.

Matron!

 

[kimmy sticks]

It's a damn shame it ended up coming to the childish end that it did. Normally I would have NEVER let anyone talk me into retaliating in the ways that I did. I usually just roll over and take the abuse of others. But for that person/situation I am VERY glad that I did what I did.

I could see it - I mean sometimes you just gotta fight back after someone puts you through BS like that. And when it comes to where you live, which is supposed to be a refuge/safe haven/etc., (plus you're paying dearly for it) I could totally understand!

 

[Cassius]

It's a damn shame it ended up coming to the childish end that it did. Normally I would have NEVER let anyone talk me into retaliating in the ways that I did. I usually just roll over and take the abuse of others. But for that person/situation I am VERY glad that I did what I did.

Same here. Your revenge was awesome.

I should have dropped this "friend" a loooong time ago. She was just a parasite. She took and took but never gave. I'm still friends with her sister, though, and she told me yesterday that she's started gaining weight and her boyfriend won't allow her to wear makeup. Sounds like she got herself into yet another shitty situation, only this time I won't be there to bail her out of it. And after the way she's treated everyone else, I don't think they will be either.