sociallyawkwardguy
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I've noticed a lot that a lot of women seem to go for the 'bad boy' type rather than the nice quiet guy such as myself who lacks confidence. I know that women like confident men and the 'bad boy' types seem to have no shortage of confidence so maybe that is why women are attracted to them? I've also heard that women think they can fix 'bad boys' or that they find them 'challenging' and exciting'?
I've never had a girlfriend or been in a been in a relationship despite being a quiet and polite person who lacks confidence and when I was younger I use to naively think because I was quiet, polite and friendly person I would eventually attract the interest of someone. Now I realise how wrong I was and it's obvious to me now that 'nice guys finish last' and women are primarily attracted to confidence in men and sometimes it doesn't even matter to them whether the man is an idiot or not so long as he is confident.
I've got no wish to make a sweeping generalisation about women but based on what I've seen around me I've noticed that a disproportionate amount of women seem to go for the 'bad boys' types. Perhaps it's genetic and women are instinctively attracted to alpha males and women being attracted to the aggressive and dominant personality traits of a 'bad boy' is a by product of this?
Don't get me wrong I'm not saying all women are like this of course but you'd have to be blind if you didn't think there was truth in it and no one is going to change my mind that 'nice guys finish last'.
I've never had a girlfriend or been in a been in a relationship despite being a quiet and polite person who lacks confidence and when I was younger I use to naively think because I was quiet, polite and friendly person I would eventually attract the interest of someone. Now I realise how wrong I was and it's obvious to me now that 'nice guys finish last' and women are primarily attracted to confidence in men and sometimes it doesn't even matter to them whether the man is an idiot or not so long as he is confident.
I've got no wish to make a sweeping generalisation about women but based on what I've seen around me I've noticed that a disproportionate amount of women seem to go for the 'bad boys' types. Perhaps it's genetic and women are instinctively attracted to alpha males and women being attracted to the aggressive and dominant personality traits of a 'bad boy' is a by product of this?
Don't get me wrong I'm not saying all women are like this of course but you'd have to be blind if you didn't think there was truth in it and no one is going to change my mind that 'nice guys finish last'.