Advice Thread

[chica]

If you need any sort of advice!

Until then, here's a question and the advice that I found on the web, I thought it was cute (or wee as some may say):



I don't get how people say they love with no regrets or they let everything go and let themselves fall in love. How do you let yourself fall in love? How do you 'forget everything and let love take over'? Thanks to anywho who can help me understand how this works ..


well if you have been hurt badly before when you let love in, it might take longer to allow yourself to trust another person.

you can't force love, it will happen, and you won't be able to stop it. everything just falls into place and you don't listen to anyone else but your heart, you just become so vulnerable.

there are things in life that you will never forget, but just because you remember it, doesn't mean that when you think about it it will still hurt. the hurt does fade, even if it takes years, or maybe just months or days.

when love takes control it just happens, and you can't go looking for love, or try to fall in love, love has to find you. and trust me, it will.

 

[Pervomartovtsi]

I just can't fall in love that way...I need very good reasons to fall in love, an intelectual animal I'm ...I'm cold as Stonecold Steve Austin...

 

[Oh my god. it's Robby!]

I just can't fall in love that way...I need very good reasons to fall in love, an intelectual animal I'm ...I'm cold as Stonecold Steve Austin...

then i pity any that love thee
for i do not really believe that there is any good reason to fall in love
and therefore
even when thou hast
then you shall surely destroy it

 

[Dave]

o murderous cupid, I take no joy in the sting of thine arrow

 

[Oh my god. it's Robby!]

o murderous cupid, I take no joy in the sting of thine arrow

hey, i only speak bad shakespeare when dispensing
my highest wisdom
or
cursing

 

[Pervomartovtsi]

I pity the girls that love me too

 

[no one in particular]

^why, do they all eventually get your hardened regards?

 

[Pervomartovtsi]

they all eventually end crying on the streets...100% of the times

 

[Pervomartovtsi]

and I'm not proud of it in any possible way

 

[no one in particular]

they all eventually end crying on the streets...100% of the times

what is it pervo? just always feel constant pressure to change, to move on?

 

[Codreanu]

I just can't fall in love that way...I need very good reasons to fall in love, an intelectual animal I'm ...I'm cold as Stonecold Steve Austin...

Is this the same Stonecold Pervo who spilled his guts about chica to his mother?
(..can't remember the thread...)

And, for a Latin Lover, isn't that tantamount to, like, an engagement or something?

P.S. before anyone asks, yes, my mom knows about Clippers.

 

[chica]

Memories, memories... Stop ripping my heart, Cod!

 

[no one in particular]

^well, there is always robby's crazy glue for the fix....

 

[chica]

they all eventually end crying on the streets...100% of the times

Come to think of it... I did! (crying on the streets included, I remember that, it was a Sunday, a couple of weeks ago )

 

[Codreanu]

Memories, memories... Stop ripping my heart, Cod!

Now, chica, always remember that it is better to have loved and lost, than to have loved and been Sir Alec!

 

[chica]

Ohhh, Sir Alec is gonnnnnne

... you really can't console me, Cod

 

[Codreanu]

... you really can't console me, Cod

... how 'bout... a cute little smiley w/ a dunce hat?
(yes, I've read the same sex wedding thread)

Awwww!??

 

[Oh my god. it's Robby!]

Oh dear. I'm glad I've never been in love and never will. Although I did love my hamster and then it died.

oh youth, love comes quickly...

 

[bikubesong]

I cant help it, it was the first thing on my mind: What is love, Oh baby, don't hurt me, don't hurt me no more.. !

 

[bikubesong]

Wouldn't say it's depressing..