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heidi

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So I am wanting your opinions on something please.

I went out with this dude two weeks ago, after talking for a while online.

It went ok, except for the fact that he had to go really suddenly (suspicious?)

But we haven't spoken to each other since. Should I email or something, or just leave it?
 
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pisces

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> So I am wanting your opinions on something please.

> I went out with this dude two weeks ago, after talking for a while online.

> It went ok, except for the fact that he had to go really suddenly
> (suspicious?)

> But we haven't spoken to each other since. Should I email or something, or
> just leave it?

Just leave it heidi, online men are oddballs!
 
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Mozzersgirl

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> So I am wanting your opinions on something please.

> I went out with this dude two weeks ago, after talking for a while online.

> It went ok, except for the fact that he had to go really suddenly
> (suspicious?)

> But we haven't spoken to each other since. Should I email or something, or
> just leave it?

Don't know if any of us are really that qualified to give advice to someone we don't know, but i'll have a go, cause i've helped friends out with this sort of thing before. Firstly, it's been 2 weeks, so he's either lost your contact details, or he's waiting for you to get in touch, or he's not interested. Secondly, it depends on what his excuse was for leaving; did you say something and he reacted badly, or did he get a phonecall or similar distraction? Because if it's the latter reason I guess he had a legitimate excuse for going that he couldn't explain. I suppose you've already analysed how the date went and you're in that state where the not knowing is the worst thing; so i reckon you should just e-mail him and ask if there's a problem, keep it casual and friendly, and if he doesn't respond, leave it at that. As long as you don't keep trying to contact him if he makes it plain he's not interested (as i've done that before and come across as a bit of a psycho :) hope this helps.
 
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seriously not answering questions

Guest
> So I am wanting your opinions on something please.

> I went out with this dude two weeks ago, after talking for a while online.

> It went ok, except for the fact that he had to go really suddenly
> (suspicious?)

> But we haven't spoken to each other since. Should I email or something, or
> just leave it?

I'd phone his wife and ask her advice.

She's probably come across this sort of thing before.

Ha.
 
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