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Sunday August 24, 08
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02:42 PM - it explains a lot....
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today, i had lunch with some of the WLA board members.
Eventually, the subject turned towards my time in Spain. I told them who my roommate was. they didn't know her until I described her a little bit. This one girl said, "OH! I know who she is!"
She then explained that at the last auction, this guy bought her some jewelry because they were dating.
That, in itself, is not that exciting. BUT, the guy was an older 3rd year law student who was married and whose wife just recently had a baby.
So, how he phrased it to someone was, "hey, do you think a woman would like this? Would you recognize it if someone was wearing it around campus?"
It wasn't like he was hiding the wife and baby. They were on his campaign posters when he was running for a spot on the Student Bar Association.
I thought about her stint in Spain where she dropped chasing after this one perfectly nice and attractive guy when this other guy (the guy we referred to as 'Cuban Ken' because he was handsome, well-mannered, incredibly rich, etc. to the point that nobody could believe he was an actual living, breathing straight man) expressed interest.
There was one whisper that had possibly had something going on back at home. But as my roommate said, "as everybody says here, 'what happens in El Escorial stays in El Escorial!"
At the time I thought "maybe she's being a bit deluded and taken in by his cash and connections. plus, she is also obsessed about a fairy-tale definition of 'love.' Maybe she has led herself to believe that he can change or that he will love only her...."
Now I realize that she's nothing but a hussy!
Of course, I amused myself with the possibilities of what this really meant.
"what if she was cheating on the guy that was cheating on his wife?"
If anything, I think it helped solidify a few of my suspicions about her. One, I think that maybe her disdain for me and how it coincided with the fact that I was single again was not coincidental. After all, she's apparently made a career out of stealing other women's men. I can see why she would be pissed off that there was another woman on the scene interfering with her action.
to me, that's screwed up. I can see where you are dating a guy and he lies about his relationship status and then you become shocked and dismayed. I can see how you can fall in love with a married guy and delude yourself into thinking that he will leave her. This is just plain gross. It's like an ego thing where she has to run out and steal other women's men. she's very attractive, keeps herself up nicely, and is a prissy little thing. surely, she can get a man that isn't giving her the leftovers.
well, if nothing else, i can at least take the moral high ground and say that it wasn't just me that made the entire roommate situation suck. it sounds like she has mental problems. ...not that the guys that cheated with her are prizes by any stretch of the imagination. I'm just saying that if i knew a guy was married and had a baby, I'd have a hard time holding my head up around people that also KNEW he was married with children....yet, she apparently had no problem with it because I guess she thought it was cool.
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