cards and it turned out to be my best Christmas in memory. I told my family that I didnt want any gifts and didnt plan to bring any - it took out so much of the stress leading up to the holiday.

I put a wreath on the door - I bought cards for 3 important people but otherwise I didnt try to listen to holiday music or watch holiday movies, it was a good xmas cause I didn't try to fake the spirit and it was a good xmas.

So I wont depress you with the details :-(