Northern Bird (4363)

Northern Bird
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I left the North, I travelled South.... Hello! lou, 30, living in North London with the luscious Rallen, but originally from the North West. A girl with a thorn in my side, my main loves are good food, fine wine, BDSM and cats. Semi-retired from Moz-solo, I check in occasionally to check the journals of good friends. Not drowning anymore...
Wednesday April 09, 03

The saddest thing I've ever seen.......er........heard......

11:02 AM

I was thinking about something driving home this afternoon. It was something a close male friend said to me a few evenings ago. It was and is, just about the best, yet most tragic thing anyone has ever said to me.

"You know you are so wonderful, kind, sweet, sexy, pretty, cool, funny and the nicest person I've ever met, and I love you so much. And I should want to marry you, but I don't, I just don't see you like that, however much I'd like to - and it makes me sad".

How gutting is that? It wasn't even that I want that from him necessarily, but if someone feels all that for me and still doesn't want me then what chance do I have? What is it I'm missing?

Answers on a postcard......

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  • Lou, you know I love you and everything....I've even left you my strap ons in my will for crying out loud, surely that means something?!!

    foxy loves lou.

    lots of love,
                                foxy.
                                          xx
    foxy -- Wednesday April 09 2003, @01:26PM (#57812)
    (User #7334 Info)
    why pamper life's complexity?
    • Re:you! by Northern Bird (Score:1) Wednesday April 09 2003, @02:14PM
  • Oh sweetheart, that kind of thing always hurts. But don't worry, if not him then someone else for sure :)

    Double-edged compliments are the worst.......

    I wish I could bake you a cupcake. Would a cupcake help?

    Ciao-
    MozGirl18 -- Wednesday April 09 2003, @01:33PM (#57816)
    (User #2483 Info)
    "It is absurd to divide people into good or bad. People are either charming or tedious."-Oscar Wilde
  • while writing in my username and stuff, i was trying to think of really deep, kind, philosophical kind things to write to you in this post.
    But whatever, I for one will be going down on one knee this weekend in front of your pink basque...
    if you can put up with life long snoring...!!

    NEVER CHANGE x

    J x
    the_tatty_truth -- Thursday April 10 2003, @03:59AM (#57851)
    (User #7359 Info)
    FAMOUS WHEN DEAD


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