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JacquesTheLad
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I'm not the man you think I am...I am a poor freezingly cold soul...I have just discovered that prudence never pays. Now, we must wait for the right time
Saturday December 13, 08

What if you never come down?

09:18 AM

The last few days have represented something of a milestone. I've passed my last ever exam (in the recognised version of the term "exam" - no doubt there are still many more tests of mettle lying in store), and I've tried to re-assess where my life's at (yet again). Still single, timid, awkward...and now there's no longer a hiding place for me to blame other events for my demise.

In times of reflection, it's always about looking for self-improvement. I've looked back at my journal entry some four years ago, detailing new year's resolutions made then. Different times back then of course - those were lucid university days, and life seemed a lot more important than it is now. There's nothing left to do, only forty, fifty, sixty more years fo work. And ultimately, we're all the same in the end.

Some of those resolutions still ring true in this year's list, however. I never used to be the type of person to come up with such a list, even in an ironic sense. I guess that it can't do any harm however, and provides a starting basis from which to draw on. Resolutions, to be implemented from 1 January 2009 or before, as follows:

1) Exercise frequently. While this takes the form of midweek sports currently, more can still be done. This is essential to ensure a more chiseled appearance (in danger of becoming seriously eroded as the years tick by on me) and also to last the pace a bit longer in sporting activities.

2) Learn how to cook. This is one of my personal disasters, as I have never really learned how to cook beyond toasted cheese. By achieving this, I should also help the first objective by being able to pick and choose my foods and eat more healthily.

3) Become more domesticated. Basically, at the moment, I live in a mess. I need to address this if I've to have any chance of living a normal life in the future.

4) Take more chances. It's all very well moping around and not getting anywhere, but it shouldn't be like that. Idlewild sing about "fortune favouring the brave". Another saying is that of nothing ventured, nothing gained. Ultimately, I guess it's a case of regretting doing something being better than regretting doing nothing. Take Jeff Hardy as an example. High risk, high reward - might not win every battle, but will win enough to get by. The only boat that doesn't rock is one that isn't going anywhere - might as well try and weather a storm while getting to a happier place.

5) Decide where I want to be - my happy place. The long-term goal is clear, it's only the means of achieving it that is to be determined. A lot of thought to be put into this. It would also help to nurture the positive side to my split personality.

There may be others before the year is out, but if these five fundamentals are met then life will be improved. I'll revisit this at a later date.

In other news, I didn't get tickets for Barrowlands. I'm not overly concerned - if I feel like it nearer the time, I'll try and find some tickets. Until next time...

PS - BWTT, if you ever amble on just give me a shout. Will let you know if I'm in the Burgh any time soon for a drink.

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  • Well, I must say I miss those days. We were close and spoke to one another often. Makes me kind of sad that you're all grown up now.
    hand in glove -- Thursday December 18 2008, @12:07AM (#316836)
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    "Sometimes things fall apart so that better things can fall together" - Marilyn Monroe
  • Yep, there's only forty, fifty, sixty more years left, so how best to spend it, thinking about how crap it all is or trying to just savour what you can before you go back into the big box of oblivion.
    Anonymous -- Thursday December 18 2008, @10:35AM (#316882)


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