Re: I find men with the last name of "Johnsson" unimaginably erotic.
> Well then, what do you eat?
I like tea and toast.¿ I'm not into porn.
I don't like porn either, but how can you resist James Maker?¿ "Mr. Johnsson," it is important for you to know that I¿ never make the first call.
I am to shy to call.¿ By the way, is that really your last name, or are you just¿ teasing me?
Well, of course it is, and I never tease.
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Re: Unless you are Kakarot........
> Then what? If you stay there you'll never find it and if you¿ look for it you won't either. What a loser!! I surely know¿ millions of people who get what they want by just sitting in¿ their bedrooms, listening to Morrissey. Come on, those songs are¿ for us to get on. Maybe Kakarot is right, if you look for it¿ you'll never find it but then your life would only become a¿ rutin and you'll get sick of yourself. I said look for it not¿ get desperate for it.
go ahead and look for love all you want you may find it, but its the person that lives there life and doesn't worry about love that has Love crash into them....and that love will be a true love....do what you want..its only my opinion
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Re: Unless you are Morrissey........
> I will take your word for it but it is hard. I can wait for it¿ if i have waited for so much else in my life. It's just got to¿ find me, i know it will. Its my last hope.
Don't believe what he says.
From what I can tell, you have to act like you are interested in a person. Don't stalk them, and don't pretend you like everything they like because people sniff out phonies, or they think they've found a sucker to walk all over. If you don't act that way, then if they are vaguely interested, they might end up saying to themselves, "they don't act any happier to see me than they do anyone else" and move on.
It's almost as if you are waiting for "love" take physical form and walk through your door. Unfortunatly, you actually have to find a real live person to do this with.
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Re: Unless you are Morrissey........
> Don't believe what he says.
why shouldn't he?
you can't find love if you are looking..obviously there are exceptions though...most relationships i ahve been involved in or that my friends have been in love and stayed together with someone has been when they weren't looking........as in becoming friends with someone..then realizing one day that you have feelings for them and they do for you....you both know much about each other and have a pretty good idea of what you are getting yourself into.....
but if you go to a bar or somewhere looking most likely whatever you find you are not goign to have anything incommon with and it will never work......
sure sometimes you see someone and you just know...much like love at first sight and then you take a risk...but then you weren't looking for love then were you? you just saw it
take my advice or don't..but what does suzanne know? have you found love suzanne? have you been in love? do you even know what love is or have an idea? because I do
kakarot
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Re: Unless you are Morrissey........
> why shouldn't he?¿ you can't find love if you are looking..obviously there are¿ exceptions though...most relationships i ahve been involved in¿ or that my friends have been in love and stayed together with¿ someone has been when they weren't looking........as in becoming¿ friends with someone..then realizing one day that you have¿ feelings for them and they do for you....you both know much¿ about each other and have a pretty good idea of what you are¿ getting yourself into.....¿ but if you go to a bar or somewhere looking most likely whatever¿ you find you are not goign to have anything incommon with and it¿ will never work......
There is a difference in desperation and creating something.
With a bar, you make it sound like "love" should just materialize that second.
If you know ANYTHING about bars, that is one of the last places you look for a lasting relationship. That is just a dumping ground for insincerity and bad pickup lines. I don't really like going in them in general, unless I have a friend with me, because of the pestering. I just want a beer. I don't want some loser telling me that I'm probably the greatest thing that has ever lived, and arriving at that conclusion after 2 sentences. That is basically forcing yourself to accept someone as an integral part of your life without inspecting the goods.¿ sure sometimes you see someone and you just know...much like¿ love at first sight and then you take a risk...but then you¿ weren't looking for love then were you? you just saw it
Subconsciously, we are always looking for love. That's what I was saying about it having to be with a person, and not with this sense of desperation that we can find any random person on the street and make it work. People don't want to be pelted with "you must decide to marry me now" after two meetings, and it really clouds your own judgment of what you actually think of this person. If they are either something to keep away the loneliness, or someone you could actually share something with.
Then again, love is a highly individualized effort. What worked for you may not cut it for someone else. Maybe some people don't think of love the way you do. We all have our own needs for what gets us through the day.¿ take my advice or don't..but what does suzanne know? have you¿ found love suzanne? have you been in love? do you even know what¿ love is or have an idea? because I do
yawn.
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Re: Unless you are Morrissey........
> If you know ANYTHING about bars, that is one of the last places¿ you look for a lasting relationship. That is just a dumping¿ ground for insincerity and bad pickup lines. I don't really like¿ going in them in general, unless I have a friend with me,¿ because of the pestering. I just want a beer. I don't want some¿ loser telling me that I'm probably the greatest thing that has¿ ever lived, and arriving at that conclusion after 2 sentences.¿ That is basically forcing yourself to accept someone as an¿ integral part of your life without inspecting the goods.
i agree you just put more words into it¿ Subconsciously, we are always looking for love. That's what I¿ was saying about it having to be with a person, and not with¿ this sense of desperation that we can find any random person on¿ the street and make it work. People don't want to be pelted with¿ "you must decide to marry me now" after two meetings,¿ and it really clouds your own judgment of what you actually¿ think of this person. If they are either something to keep away¿ the loneliness, or someone you could actually share something¿ with.
why must everyone take my words to extremes? assume things i never said?¿ Then again, love is a highly individualized effort. What worked¿ for you may not cut it for someone else. Maybe some people don't¿ think of love the way you do. We all have our own needs for what¿ gets us through the day.
maybe...there are always exceptions¿ yawn.
*poking finger in your mouth*
got ya!
morrissey friends
Re: Unless you are Morrissey........you would be home by now
> i agree you just put more words into it¿ why must everyone take my words to extremes? assume things i¿ never said?
If I typed slower, there would be fewer words.¿ maybe...there are always exceptions
I know people who fall in love instantly upon meeting each other and make everyone violently sick upon looking at them, and I've known people who were friends with their lovers for years before anything happened. You can't even begin to tell me that it happens the same for everyone.
As for me going to extremes, admit there is some truth to that. I know people who have a running list of who could be the lucky guy because they want action that bad.
But really, it is never a complete surprise if anything happens. Any time you look at a person, there is a part of your brain that is sizing up our first impressions in thinking how fun this person is and what they look like naked. There is never a time, even when we are going to the post office that you can't turn a blind eye away from who is out there.¿ *poking finger in your mouth*
Yuck! I don't know where it's been!¿ got ya!
Got me what? If you don't live on my planet, you have no idea what the laws of gravity are.
You think I tell you everything.....
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