> Dear Jt I'll spare you the philosophical blah, blah, I only have question,
> Would you marry a black or asian or non-whie person and raise a
> family with this person?
Well for starters, I'm not keen on the idea of having kids. So that wouldn't really be an issue per se. But to answer your question, yes I suppose I would if the person was the right person.
I am actually quite innately drawn to slightly darker-skinned women (ie, Italian, Spanish, Argentinian, etc.) -- purely for aesthetic reasons, the way we all have our preferences when it comes to appearance.
But to give you what I'm sure you're looking for, I'll be forthright and say that yeah, I somewhat hope that the person with whom I ultimately fall in love and marry is white like myself. It's certainly not a litmus test, but it would be nice if it happened. But the thing you should probably remember is that most of my beefs (as delineated here in this forum) have been with GROUPS. Minority *groups* lashing out at the Founding Fathers, the NAACP, etc. etc. When you get down to the level of detail of an INDIVIDUAL, then race really matters hardly at all to me. As it stands, my five truly serious relationships in my life have included Jews and Italians, and I've certainly dated a few black girls before.
But yeah, given the views that I've stated in this forum, it would be rather hypocritical of me to marry a non-white and have non-white kids, wouldn't it? Probably so. I guess I hope that doesn't happen. But if the girl is right, then the girl is right, and that takes precedence.
Also to the point, tho... I am generally attracted mostly to whites, latins, mediterraneans. I don't generally dig asians or blacks, and again I say this purely from an innate sense of "are you physically attracted to them?"
I really dig what I refer to as the "delta" in girls. Delta, meaning, the DIFFERENCE in size between a girl's waist and her hips. I like a big delta
Meaning, a really very narrow waist that goes inward from her upper body, and then goes way outward with very wide hips. I just love that body type
Well, Asian girls as a general rule have a tendence to be much slimmer and "straight" (ie, less curvy). So i just don't tend to dig asian girls. It's not racist, it's not because "ooh she's asian" -- it's just because they don't generally have the traits and physical characteristics that move me. If an asian girl DID have the delta, well then by all means i'd dig that
I'll say it again tho -- people generally tend to prefer the company of and are attracted to those in a similar racial/cultural group as themselves. I think whites are innately more attracted to other whites, blacks more innately attracted to other blacks, etc. It's just human nature, it's a comfort level thing that we feel even going back to our preschool years. It's nothing bad, it's nothing horrible -- it's just human nature.
Right now, as a matter of fact, the girl I most dig in my life is some sort of latin combination -- I'm purely guessing here, but maybe Brasilian, some other south american country, and Spanish? Hard to say. But she has an unbelievable delta, a truly beautiful face, and just a classy demeanour and style of dress that is stunning. Sound superficial? It really isn't. The most important aspects of girls are who they are as people, and how compatible they are with you in terms of day to day life together. But being as i've never met this girl I've described, I don't have the luxury to discuss her personality and mind -- all i have to go by is her physical appearance and the way she carries herself and interacts with others.
And trust me, the fact that she isn't white --- I could NOT possibly care less even one iota
Cheers,
J.T.