> I don't understand the concept of men having a feminine side or
> women having a masculine side. Morrissey talks about it. I don't
> feel like I've got characteristics that are 'opposite' to my
> gender. I just feel like me. Anyone understand it?
Nothing is opposite your gender, because gender is all in the head. It's a role people play, noy a biological thing. Your sex is biological, but your gender is mental.
That said, both sexes make both testosterone and estrogen, and we all begin as women in the womb, us men just have an incomplete chromosone with a leg missing(Y instead of X), and we get sucked into a life with a rather troublesome appendage and more testosterone than women, and this causes alterations that women don't have to deal with...squared features, (often excess)bodyhair, baldness, etc...
But some men prefer things that are more "feminine" to the culture around them, and some women prefer more "masculine" things...whereas, in another culture, these things wouldn't neccessarily be more male or female, because each culture sets their gender roles differently..and they change with time as well. Pink used to be considered the most "masculine" colour to dress babies in, while blue was considered "soft and feminine"...that was at the end of the 19th Century, and now, 100 years later(not long in the big picture), it's been totally reversed! They would see all the pink toys for girls and think we were trying to raise dykes!
Gender is not a concrete thing.