first time I try to talk with people who love the music I love

[aurel]

Hello everybody I am a frensh 20 years old boy who feel sadder and sadder every day because I can't find the good person to talk with . I have enough to lamentate with my faithfull good friends . When i am listening to a song of Morrissey that deals with the difficulty to find a girl who could love me and whom i could love , i have the feeling to have written the words . I don't mind if moz is gay or not , nevermind for me , but this difficulty to find the person who could change my life is real for me . When i have the feeling to have find THE girl she tells me that she loves another .But when a girl seems to be interested to know me i don't feel anything , and it is the same for several years .I hope somebody would like to answer to me . Just one question , why Morrissey will not come to France this autumn ?

[Dr. Moz]

>Don't worry, Dr. Moz has all the answers, as you have said. Remember "i had a really awful dream---it lasted 20 years...." and "Please wait, don't lose faith" as he says on Your Arsenal. Don't give up the ship until the "right one slips in."

[shelley]

Dearest French Friend,
There is no such thing as love, and that is why you cannot find it. So stop looking and start living. That which you call "love" is merely a romanticized, unrealistic idea stemming from your desire for sex. And sex is boring. The notion of Sex as romantic is nature's (and the church's) way of tricking you into reproducing. But the world does not need any more children, and hence, we can do without sex.
It is okay to pursue the ideal of Love as long as you are willing to be disappointed. Disappointment is not that bad, really. For without disappointment, we would all be inspired to live extremely long lives. And nothing is more tragic than that.

Keep Love as an afterthought and try to pursue other things. If you discover anything else worth living for, let me know. I've been looking for a long time.

[noam]

the hell. you are so right. people here only post when they have something evil to say, but i feel the urge.
anyway aurel, try something different. do something to change the scene...because if you dont there is no guarantee that he someday will happen.
you dont have to find it all tomorrow..
but change!
i give you a week.