actually, dingleberry jones, i already posted an explanation for my weight gain a while back. it began during my childhood when i was having severe emotional problems springing from (among other things)1) a natural tendancy toward depression, 2) being raised in an extremely stringent and oppressive religion, and 3) my mother's falling ill with cancer while i was still in elementary school. plus, do you really think that a mother who is dying of cancer has the time or energy to prepare nutritionally sound meals for her husband and four children? sorry to burst your bubble, but no.
additionally, weight problems are very often hereditary, at least in part. some people DO have bad metabolisms. it's a fact. yeah, maybe it's not an excuse. they do have to work harder to reach and maintain a healthy weight. and you know as well as i do that there are thin people who eat burgers and fries daily and never exercise. yeah, life isn't fair. anyway, moz admits to eating a lot of bread and fruit and yogurt. hmm, sugars and carbs. what do you know?
and you know what? i do eat healthfully most of the time. on average, i consume less than 1600 calories a day. i don't exercise much as i've already admitted, but i am enrolling in aerobics and yoga classes at my college, since this semester, my course load is a lot lighter than last. furthermore, i think it's really f***ed up to judge overweight people as harshly as you do. being overweight is practically a victimless crime -- the only victims are the overweight people themselves.
why should i lose weight really? so i can make myself attractive enough to catch a man like you? f*** that.
despite my being overweight, i am very healthy. ask my doctor. and when i finally decide to take action, it will be for myself and not because society says i have to be skinny, because frankly, GD said it best: "skinny girls with plain faces just look like boys." or something to that effect anyway!
and you may have a nice body, as you claim, but does all that working out make you any less of a prick?
p.s. i'm not even that fat! i wear a size 16 in most things. so grow up. a size 16 is not obese.