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I learned that Heather is a brilliant polemical writer. Not sure I agree with her points. But she argues them passionately and effectively. I am an alpha female yest I also prefer alpha males--especially sexually-- but attract beta ones--understandably. We are all sorts of things, yes. But we also are attracted to certain people for particular reasons. She is not arguing to accept beta males so much as she is arguing for her to accept herself--as an alpha female. But even us alpha females have rescue fantasies and like to be protected and taken care of. I think it is in our genetic makeup--not just socialization.
Yes you still defend the beta and alpha myth because it only applies to animals and not to the animal they call human. From earlier debates it is clear you have a very weird view on this issue based on this notion that you are alpha yourself and women simply cannot be beta or alpha at all. That theory only applies to men but it is a myth.
How we view ourselves may fall into categories of beta or alpha but we tend to exaggerate our strengths and overlook our weaknesses. I just think you have struggled to find yourself a decent man and so you fall into the female need of longing for what you view as "a real man". Most women that found "a real man" are now dead.