The totalitarian libido

[Andrew]

Can anyone not agree that ultimately our actions are guided by our libidos? I have sought to supress mine, but it never works. I suspect that I might live a more fulfilling (and religious) life if I were not always thinking of sex (and all that it evokes). I truly am fascinated by the powers of sexual energy. But I just wish it was not so damned controlling.

Andrew

[Jumpin' Jimmy]

Listen, Andrew, the solution to your problem is very simple.

Don't listen too much to what Morrissey says. The suppression of libido is not for most people.

Have sex, and lots of it - that's one solution. That is the best way to stop yourself thinking of it. For each person there is a different frequency of sex required to stave off desire muddling the mind. For me, it would be about three times a day.

Now, that is not always possible, and, besides, it takes too much time, thus defeating the purpose. So you might just masturbate a lot, and quickly. Then you are free to think about whatever you want. The problem with masturbation ONLY is that in a lot of people it causes feelings of frustration that produces exactly the opposite of the intended effect, making them think about sex more.

The obvious solution is to mix the two. Have just enough sex to stop yourself feeling lonely and the rest of the time ferociously w-a-n-k-i-n-g.

If you get the balance right, then you can lead a nice fulfilling life, without feeling controlled by those filthy urges of yours.

[Boris Karloff]

I think you might just be shallow. But keep working at it.

[Little Miss Curious]

> Can anyone not agree that ultimately our actions are guided by
> our libidos? I have sought to supress mine, but it never works.
> I suspect that I might live a more fulfilling (and religious)
> life if I were not always thinking of sex (and all that it
> evokes). I truly am fascinated by the powers of sexual energy.
> But I just wish it was not so damned controlling.

> Andrew

You could visit a hypnotist to make you go back (and stay back) to the time when you thought girls were yukky.

LMC x

[The Magic Fairy]

I'd suggest increasing the amount of exercise you do. It works wonders. After a 50 mile bike ride you'll be too knackered to think about sex.

TMF x

[Little Miss Curious]

> I'd suggest increasing the amount of exercise you do. It works
> wonders. After a 50 mile bike ride you'll be too knackered to
> think about sex.

> TMF x

No! No! No cycling! Don't listen to him! It's not worth it!

LMC x

[suzanne]

> Can anyone not agree that ultimately our actions are guided by
> our libidos? I have sought to supress mine, but it never works.
> I suspect that I might live a more fulfilling (and religious)
> life if I were not always thinking of sex (and all that it
> evokes). I truly am fascinated by the powers of sexual energy.
> But I just wish it was not so damned controlling.

Yes, it does seem like way too much of our times is centered around trying to find someone to bring home with us in the name of squelching our "loneliness"

And I have seen some people that are so obsessed with it that it affects EVERYTHING that they do. What friends they will have who either help them find someone or present no threat. and so forth.

[Holly]

> Can anyone not agree that ultimately our actions are guided by
> our libidos? I have sought to supress mine, but it never works.
> I suspect that I might live a more fulfilling (and religious)
> life if I were not always thinking of sex (and all that it
> evokes). I truly am fascinated by the powers of sexual energy.
> But I just wish it was not so damned controlling.

> Andrew

Are you Constantin, under a different name? Or just a cheap ripoff?

[Sharron Needles]

> Can anyone not agree that ultimately our actions are guided by
> our libidos? I have sought to supress mine, but it never works.
> I suspect that I might live a more fulfilling (and religious)
> life if I were not always thinking of sex (and all that it
> evokes). I truly am fascinated by the powers of sexual energy.
> But I just wish it was not so damned controlling.

> Andrew

I love the fact that I think about sex all day long. I am a total horny bastard. I just don't act on most of my fantasies. It is better(and safer) that way, and it just makes you think about sex more. Plus if we did not think about sex so often, what is there? Suicide maybe.

[Sharron Needles]

> I'd suggest increasing the amount of exercise you do. It works
> wonders. After a 50 mile bike ride you'll be too knackered to
> think about sex.

> TMF x

Well, most females I know can find a bike ride rather enjoyable.

[Been there, done that, bought a hotdog]

> Can anyone not agree that ultimately our actions are guided by
> our libidos? I have sought to supress mine, but it never works.

Randy Andy, don't worry. I used to think like you are a couple of years ago. I WAS Dr Sex... No woman was safe from my gaze. I'd develop strange and intoxicating crushes on women at work... They would last about 3 weeks, then I'd move on to another one. It was a terrible thing, just thinking about SEX with them all day and feeling desperately unhappy that I didn't have it and probably couldn't do. I used to feel so damn horny watching them... It was embarrassing... But I got over it... A year or so later I didn't think like that at all. Maybe it's a hormonal thing. Anyway, keep a clear head and don't do anything unwise... You'll be fine in the long run.

Next patient, please.

[Cinderella]

I never get one moments peace...ever. I even think about sex with people I don't wanna have sex with just to gross myself out.

Sex is good.

But here's my gripe with it...some people are just so darned unreasonable about it! I mean how long do you have to feign interest in vapid chit-chat and deal with "but she wants me, I MUST be Jesus" attidudes just to get some touch?! It's getting so as it's ridiculous, I'm thinking about forming a union...and calling it the no fuss no nonsense no vapid wittering on about "feelings" lets stop messing about shut the hell up and let's have more orgasms society. Comments?

And is there anything more annoying than the 'let's wait until we know each other better before we fu.ck brigade' I mean what if you invest the time, and then realise you don't actually like each other (and let's face it kiddies that's gonna happen nine out of every ten) you've expended all that energy and for what?! Waste of bloody time and effort if you ask me...and that kind of thing can only lead to you being bitter and before you know it the whole jilted lover, what's in it for me experience grows within you and festers like rot setting into a decaying corpse and before you know it you've got a facial tick and an antipathy to anyone who seems to be in any kind of fullfilling relationship...and we all know what that then leads on to...OH YES - you start listening to the smiths and then from there on in it's a whole downward spiral kind of a gig...so I say let the love come along later on if it's going to arrive at all but in the mean time stop talking and start sucking...

[L'Estrange]

> I never get one moments peace...ever. I even think about sex
> with people I don't wanna have sex with just to gross myself
> out.

> Sex is good.

> But here's my gripe with it...some people are just so darned
> unreasonable about it! I mean how long do you have to feign
> interest in vapid chit-chat and deal with "but she wants
> me, I MUST be Jesus" attidudes just to get some touch?!
> It's getting so as it's ridiculous, I'm thinking about forming a
> union...and calling it the no fuss no nonsense no vapid
> wittering on about "feelings" lets stop messing about
> shut the hell up and let's have more orgasms society. Comments?

> And is there anything more annoying than the 'let's wait until
> we know each other better before we fu.ck brigade' I mean what
> if you invest the time, and then realise you don't actually like
> each other (and let's face it kiddies that's gonna happen nine
> out of every ten) you've expended all that energy and for what?!
> Waste of bloody time and effort if you ask me...and that kind of
> thing can only lead to you being bitter and before you know it
> the whole jilted lover, what's in it for me experience grows
> within you and festers like rot setting into a decaying corpse
> and before you know it you've got a facial tick and an antipathy
> to anyone who seems to be in any kind of fullfilling
> relationship...and we all know what that then leads on to...OH
> YES - you start listening to the smiths and then from the
I think about having sex with people i don't want to have sex with too - but i get off on it.
Can i still join your orgasm society?
I'm not sick It's just that i can imagine it better with unattractive people.

[punchdrunkGB]

I want to start a smiths tribute band in england called THE SMUTS ;0)

DO you want to be andy????

I will be johnny cos i am great with my fingers....;0)

The magic fairy can be mike as i hear he likes smashing stuff

AND TEddy can sing like a bird i have been told.....

> I never get one moments peace...ever. I even think about sex
> with people I don't wanna have sex with just to gross myself
> out.

> Sex is good.

> But here's my gripe with it...some people are just so darned
> unreasonable about it! I mean how long do you have to feign
> interest in vapid chit-chat and deal with "but she wants
> me, I MUST be Jesus" attidudes just to get some touch?!
> It's getting so as it's ridiculous, I'm thinking about forming a
> union...and calling it the no fuss no nonsense no vapid
> wittering on about "feelings" lets stop messing about
> shut the hell up and let's have more orgasms society. Comments?

> And is there anything more annoying than the 'let's wait until
> we know each other better before we fu.ck brigade' I mean what
> if you invest the time, and then realise you don't actually like
> each other (and let's face it kiddies that's gonna happen nine
> out of every ten) you've expended all that energy and for what?!
> Waste of bloody time and effort if you ask me...and that kind of
> thing can only lead to you being bitter and before you know it
> the whole jilted lover, what's in it for me experience grows
> within you and festers like rot setting into a decaying corpse
> and before you know it you've got a facial tick and an antipathy
> to anyone who seems to be in any kind of fullfilling
> relationship...and we all know what that then leads on to...OH
> YES - you start listening to the smiths and then from there on
> in it's a whole downward spiral kind of a gig...so I say let the
> love come along later on if it's going to arrive at all but in
> the mean time stop talking and start sucking...

[Little Miss Curious]

> The magic fairy can be mike as i hear he likes smashing stuff

And where on Earth did you hear this?!?

LMC x

[Fabricio]

> I never get one moments peace...ever. I even think about sex
> with people I don't wanna have sex with just to gross myself
> out.

> Sex is good.

> But here's my gripe with it...some people are just so darned
> unreasonable about it! I mean how long do you have to feign
> interest in vapid chit-chat and deal with "but she wants
> me, I MUST be Jesus" attidudes just to get some touch?!
> It's getting so as it's ridiculous, I'm thinking about forming a
> union...and calling it the no fuss no nonsense no vapid
> wittering on about "feelings" lets stop messing about
> shut the hell up and let's have more orgasms society. Comments?

well, Cinderella my darling, I don´t know what to say about it... but I can`t stop thinking about it!

> And is there anything more annoying than the 'let's wait until
> we know each other better before we fu.ck brigade' I mean what
> if you invest the time, and then realise you don't actually like
> each other (and let's face it kiddies that's gonna happen nine
> out of every ten) you've expended all that energy and for what?!
> Waste of bloody time and effort if you ask me...and that kind of
> thing can only lead to you being bitter and before you know it
> the whole jilted lover, what's in it for me experience grows
> within you and festers like rot setting into a decaying corpse
> and before you know it you've got a facial tick and an antipathy
> to anyone who seems to be in any kind of fullfilling
> relationship...and we all know what that then leads on to...OH
> YES - you start listening to the smiths and then from there on
> in it's a whole downward spiral kind of a gig...so I say let the
> love come along later on if it's going to arrive at all but in
> the mean time stop talking and start sucking...

hehe... oh... mmm... well, I still don`t know what to say!

[Punch-drunkGB]

I know more than i pretend to know ;0)

> And where on Earth did you hear this?!?

> LMC x