View Full Version : If you knew Morrissey sexual orientation, Would you tell anybody?
I_Cried
January 12, 2012, 03:16 PM
Imagine if you for some strange reason found out something about moz love life(partner,sexualityetc). Would you keep it a secret or tell every single person who gives a shit?
I think i could keep my mouth shut. What about you?
Amy
January 12, 2012, 04:05 PM
I don't think it would need to be a secret - but then, I don't see how his sex life would be anyone else's business either. He's said before that nothing people could assume about his sexuality would embarrass him, so would anyone really be shocked by an "official" statement? I imagine most long-term fans came to their own conclusions about his sexuality long ago, and the whole Jake incident seems to be regarded as fact these days so.. what difference would it make? Morrissey has always given his audience room to form their own opinions, and he's fully aware that a large portion of that audience considers him to be gay. It doesn't bother him.
the raytownian
January 12, 2012, 06:50 PM
I wouldn't really care enough to feel it was worth mentioning, assuming it didn't involve horses.
esskay
January 12, 2012, 08:20 PM
I think it is common knowledge that he is essentially gay with some old-fashioned guilt/anxiety/self-loathing thrown in.
Hector Marroquin
January 12, 2012, 08:46 PM
Only if he were involved with someone like Jesse Tobias. Just to see Solo explode...
...actually come think about it, I don't think many would be that surprised.
Since no one I know in real life or the general public would give a damn, I would get nothing out of making a big revelation. Honestly, I think this would be the only place that would go crazy. Even his Latino fans, who tend to come from very Catholic families were homophobia is very prominent, embrace the fact that El Moz is perhaps not hetero.
CrystalGeezer
January 12, 2012, 09:13 PM
Since no one I know in real life or the general public would give a damn, I would get nothing out of making a big revelation. Honestly, I think this would be the only place that would go crazy. Even his Latino fans, who tend to come from very Catholic families were homophobia is very prominent, embrace the fact that El Moz is perhaps not hetero.
This.
billybu69
January 12, 2012, 09:15 PM
I think it is common knowledge that he is essentially gay with some old-fashioned guilt/anxiety/self-loathing thrown in.
Nail on head
All Over Battersea
January 12, 2012, 10:19 PM
Whenever anyone asks me about Morrissey's sexual orientation I always tell them he's bisexual.
prisoner77
January 12, 2012, 11:13 PM
I usually say he's A sexual. If I knew for certain I'd keep it to myself.
MORRIZSEY
January 12, 2012, 11:29 PM
I have for a long time viewed Morrissey as a gay man trapped inside an asexual man's body
ˇViva Morrissey!
January 13, 2012, 12:17 AM
Everyone thinks they are so smart. The only people that would know Morrissey's sexuality are the one's who've slept with him. So, it's really stupid to speculate, but... If we have to use a term to describe him, he's STRAIGHT.
I'm not trying to shock or oppose you, but this is a fact. I am also not saying he doesn't have "homo" tendencies, but this is nothing new for the entire human race. By the law of statistics, NO ONE is 100% straight and NO ONE (and this is the kicker) is 100% gay. IT IS IMPOSSIBLE. So, knowing this, the question is: What percentage of straight/gay is Morrissey? 50/50? 60/40? 30/70? or 99/1? To know this, you'd have to be in Morrissey's head (pardon the pun). Morrissey has discussed this in the past by way of "masculine/feminine" sides... So, I really don't get why people, even at this stage, desire to BRAND him one or the other and further, why people lazily use the term Gay or Bi. He's made it CLEAR that it's impossible to do so.
I have always thought of Morrissey as straight, but INTERESTED in homosexual...shall we say..."things"... This doesn't means he's gay, far from it. In fact, does it make me gay that I like Erasure songs? No, it doesn't. They are good songs. This interest, if it even exists, we know for a long time and based on his statements, Morrissey never acted upon (nor desired to, really) and seemed to suffer as a result of not acting on these, shall we say, "impulses." Someone mentioned "Jake" and....? So what? People consider Jake to be significant in some way... He took pictures. And? It seems all these little bitchy Morrissey fans, male and female, get it in their heads that Jake was Morrissey's lover. What evidence do you have of this? Because he took some pictures? Pathetic.
Morrissey could in fact be gay and as he has stated that he's no longer celibate, he could in fact screwed or been screwed by a dude. But, I really don't see it. If he is gay, I would be let down but only because how great and shocking it would be if he turned out to be straight? Everyone would be completely BAFFLED! Questions would abound, how can a straight man write these songs? I'll tell you how...BECAUSE HE'S HUMAN. This would make a great end to the Morrissey story, in my humble opinion.
But to answer the question of the thread, "Would I tell, if I knew?" NEVAH!
Amy
January 13, 2012, 01:21 AM
Everyone thinks they are so smart. The only people that would know Morrissey's sexuality are the one's who've slept with him. So, it's really stupid to speculate, but... If we have to use a term to describe him, he's STRAIGHT.
I'm not trying to shock or oppose you, but this is a fact. I am also not saying he doesn't have "homo" tendencies, but this is nothing new for the entire human race. By the law of statistics, NO ONE is 100% straight and NO ONE (and this is the kicker) is 100% gay. IT IS IMPOSSIBLE. So, knowing this, the question is: What percentage of straight/gay is Morrissey? 50/50? 60/40? 30/70? or 99/1? To know this, you'd have to be in Morrissey's head (pardon the pun). Morrissey has discussed this in the past by way of "masculine/feminine" sides... So, I really don't get why people, even at this stage, desire to BRAND him one or the other and further, why people lazily use the term Gay or Bi. He's made it CLEAR that it's impossible to do so.
I have always thought of Morrissey as straight, but INTERESTED in homosexual...shall we say..."things"... This doesn't means he's gay, far from it. In fact, does it make me gay that I like Erasure songs? No, it doesn't. They are good songs. This interest, if it even exists, we know for a long time and based on his statements, Morrissey never acted upon (nor desired to, really) and seemed to suffer as a result of not acting on these, shall we say, "impulses." Someone mentioned "Jake" and....? So what? People consider Jake to be significant in some way... He took pictures. And? It seems all these little bitchy Morrissey fans, male and female, get it in their heads that Jake was Morrissey's lover. What evidence do you have of this? Because he took some pictures? Pathetic.
Morrissey could in fact be gay and as he has stated that he's no longer celibate, he could in fact screwed or been screwed by a dude. But, I really don't see it. If he is gay, I would be let down but only because how great and shocking it would be if he turned out to be straight? Everyone would be completely BAFFLED! Questions would abound, how can a straight man write these songs? I'll tell you how...BECAUSE HE'S HUMAN. This would make a great end to the Morrissey story, in my humble opinion.
But to answer the question of the thread, "Would I tell, if I knew?" NEVAH!
Wow. Way to get incredibly angry about nothing. Why are you so terrified of the suggestion that he might be gay?
"If we have to use a term to describe him, he's STRAIGHT". No, he isn't. In the past he has spoken openly about sleeping with men and women and being attracted to men and women, so it's hardly 'lazy' to conclude that he is, at least, bisexual. He can have both. Johnny Marr said in the Smiths days that Morrissey had previously had relationships with both sexes. Unless you think he was lying too?
Jake lived with Morrissey for two years. During that time he also took naked and semi-naked pictures of him, swapped clothes with him, and had a fake tattoo of his name printed across his abdomen for a single insert. If you think that could be platonic, well...:rolleyes:.
CrystalGeezer
January 13, 2012, 03:11 AM
I think he's gay in the sense that he's a lesbian.
ˇViva Morrissey!
January 13, 2012, 03:16 AM
Wow. Way to get incredibly angry about nothing.
I'm not angry about anything, you're misinterpreting things.
Why are you so terrified of the suggestion that he might be gay?
I'm not terrified at all. Gay people can hump each other all they want, I could care less. It's his business, but as a fan, I would find it incredibly boring and predictable if he were gay. Morrissey, throughout his career, has been neither predictable or boring.
"If we have to use a term to describe him, he's STRAIGHT". No, he isn't. In the past he has spoken openly about sleeping with men and women and being attracted to men and women, so it's hardly 'lazy' to conclude that he is, at least, bisexual.
:lbf:Hahaha, you're joking, right? NEVER ONCE has Morrissey stated OPENLY or specifically about sleeping with men AND women. Are you insane? He hasn't even said, as far as I can remember, specifically, EVER BEING ATTRACTED TO BOTH Men and WOMEN? Are you insane? The only thing I remember him saying is that he was BORED with both of them.
He can have both.
No he can't. And he has stated it in several songs and interviews.
Johnny Marr said in the Smiths days that Morrissey had previously had relationships with both sexes. Unless you think he was lying too?
No, Johnny Marr IS NOT lying because HE NEVER SAID THAT. And if he did use the word "relationships", well, that really isn't saying ANYTHING as we all have certain relationships with both sexes throughout the world and in our lives, if even with a bank teller. Johnny would never dare ever say or elude to Morrissey being gay, not in the slightest. And anything that is construed as such, can easily be refuted.
Jake lived with Morrissey for two years.
Really? What evidence do you have of this? Perhaps they were close friends? Boz is close friends with Morrissey, did they have a sexual relationship too? Two friends can't live together without being gay? You're quite naive. You sound as if you're hoping he's gay to suit your lifestyle.
During that time he also took naked and semi-naked pictures of him,
Oh yeah, he did so with Linder "during that time" (or before that time) too. So now he's straight, right? He also took pictures almost completely naked RECENTLY with his current band, so surely, he's gay and having sex with his entire band, including Boz, right? AGAIN, you're naive.
swapped clothes with him,
Really? What proof? AND so what!? This means nothing. Guys in college swap clothes all the time with their roommates and are not even close to gay. Again, naive.
and had a fake tattoo of his name printed across his abdomen for a single insert.
And? So? What's your point? So if someone writes Morrissey's name across their chest, post it on facebook, they're gay and in love with Morrissey, huh? Interesting. Seriously, what planet are you from, Ms Fag Enabler?
If you think that could be platonic, well...:rolleyes:.
Yes, I DO think it is HIGHLY platonic as you are easily duped. Look at the photo below, regardless of ANGIE MARR, Johnny SURELY was having gay sex with Morrissey while in The Smiths. I mean, look at it, if you think they're relationship was platonic, well....:rolleyes:
http://shirleymarr.net/news/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/morrissey-and-marr.jpg
sol
January 13, 2012, 03:23 AM
the Smiths days that morrissey , Are you still celibate? "Yes. Boring, isn't it?" (Star Hits, 1986) and now he is "the heart is a lonely HUNTER " ; woman or man WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE ? :rolleyes: two word about morrissey sexual "very impressive" :horny:
CrystalGeezer
January 13, 2012, 03:24 AM
He could have both if he got with someone who was kinda both a boy and a girl. Just sayin...
alek2702
January 13, 2012, 03:33 AM
:lbf:Hahaha, you're joking, right? NEVER ONCE has Morrissey stated OPENLY or specifically about sleeping with men AND women. Are you insane?
This (http://motorcycleaupairboy.com/interviews/1992/observer.htm) interview comes to mind...
Some quotes for you:
One of my physical encounters was with a man.
Has he slept with women? 'Yes. I feel completely open. If I met somebody tomorrow, male or female, and they loved me and I loved them, I would openly proclaim that I loved them, regardless of what they were. I think people should be loved whatever their gender, whatever their age. I am open to everything.'
Really, you must be in some serious denial if you think Morrissey is straight:crazy:
ˇViva Morrissey!
January 13, 2012, 03:42 AM
This (http://motorcycleaupairboy.com/interviews/1992/observer.htm) interview comes to mind...
Some quotes for you:
Really, you must be in some serious denial if you think Morrissey is straight:crazy:
Tell you what, I'll read the interview. I have to make sure you didn't take it out of context. Also, off the top of my head: an "encounter" doesn't necessarily mean SEX has taken place. But I'll read it and get back to you. Thanks for the reference.
alek2702
January 13, 2012, 04:00 AM
No, Johnny Marr IS NOT lying because HE NEVER SAID THAT. And if he did use the word "relationships", well, that really isn't saying ANYTHING as we all have certain relationships with both sexes throughout the world and in our lives, if even with a bank teller. Johnny would never dare ever say or elude to Morrissey being gay, not in the slightest. And anything that is construed as such, can easily be refuted.
Actually, it seems like he did say that here (http://www.cemetrygates.com/vault/smiths/record.html).
Also, off the top of my head: an "encounter" doesn't necessarily mean SEX has taken place. But I'll read it and get back to you. Thanks for the reference.
When you use the expression "physical encounter" when asked about homosexuality, it's pretty clear you mean sexual activity. Why are you so defensive about it?
zepfan1
January 13, 2012, 04:03 AM
I'm not angry about anything, you're misinterpreting things.
I'm not terrified at all. Gay people can hump each other all they want, I could care less. It's his business, but as a fan, I would find it incredibly boring and predictable if he were gay. Morrissey, throughout his career, has been neither predictable or boring.
:lbf:Hahaha, you're joking, right? NEVER ONCE has Morrissey stated OPENLY or specifically about sleeping with men AND women. Are you insane? He hasn't even said, as far as I can remember, specifically, EVER BEING ATTRACTED TO BOTH Men and WOMEN? Are you insane? The only thing I remember him saying is that he was BORED with both of them.
No he can't. And he has stated it in several songs and interviews.
No, Johnny Marr IS NOT lying because HE NEVER SAID THAT. And if he did use the word "relationships", well, that really isn't saying ANYTHING as we all have certain relationships with both sexes throughout the world and in our lives, if even with a bank teller. Johnny would never dare ever say or elude to Morrissey being gay, not in the slightest. And anything that is construed as such, can easily be refuted.
Really? What evidence do you have of this? Perhaps they were close friends? Boz is close friends with Morrissey, did they have a sexual relationship too? Two friends can't live together without being gay? You're quite naive. You sound as if you're hoping he's gay to suit your lifestyle.
Oh yeah, he did so with Linder "during that time" (or before that time) too. So now he's straight, right? He also took pictures almost completely naked RECENTLY with his current band, so surely, he's gay and having sex with his entire band, including Boz, right? AGAIN, you're naive.
Really? What proof? AND so what!? This means nothing. Guys in college swap clothes all the time with their roommates and are not even close to gay. Again, naive.
And? So? What's your point? So if someone writes Morrissey's name across their chest, post it on facebook, they're gay and in love with Morrissey, huh? Interesting. Seriously, what planet are you from, Ms Fag Enabler?
Yes, I DO think it is HIGHLY platonic as you are easily duped. Look at the photo below, regardless of ANGIE MARR, Johnny SURELY was having gay sex with Morrissey while in The Smiths. I mean, look at it, if you think they're relationship was platonic, well....:rolleyes:
http://shirleymarr.net/news/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/morrissey-and-marr.jpg
I posted a comment about a year ago regarding the same response:
UM...
He is bisexual with heterosexual tendencies...
Please see the myriad of random examples:
Q: You're taken for an aesthete. Are you never attracted by plastic beauty? Women’s physiques?
M: I've had a quite late development on this level. Now if I see a beautiful woman I can be attracted like any man. But I find it very embarrassing. It's the same whether it's an attraction to a man or a woman. Nothing seems to go well with me. The concept of attraction doesn't work. Human relations don't work... If I see someone I find attractive, then I flee in the other direction. I'd be absolutely unable to go and talk to this person. What's the use of going and saying that I find this person attractive? It could never go well between us. The few times when I tried to build relationships - when I was younger - they never worked out for very long. So I gave up
From an anonymous source
Oh...by the way...my dad's best friend is the keyboard player for Morrissey. And Morrissey is bisexual for sure. He has attraction for the drummer Matt Chamberlain for sure. Take it for what its worth...believe me or not....
http://www.absolutepunk.net/artists/showlink.php?do=showdetails&l=2042 (http://www.absolutepunk.net/artists/showlink.php?do=showdetails&l=2042)
Will you send me some pornography? Do you HAVE a girlfriend? Do you LIKE girls? I have a girlfriend called Annalisa. We're both bisexual. Real hip, huh? I hate sex.
http://torr.typepad.com/weblog/2008/01/moz-penpal-lett.html (http://torr.typepad.com/weblog/2008/01/moz-penpal-lett.html)
Also please view min 06:10 though 06:24.... awwww
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2di154-L0YY&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2di154-L0YY&feature=related
alek2702
January 13, 2012, 04:29 AM
Really? What evidence do you have of this? Perhaps they were close friends? Boz is close friends with Morrissey, did they have a sexual relationship too? Two friends can't live together without being gay? You're quite naive. You sound as if you're hoping he's gay to suit your lifestyle.
Oh yeah, he did so with Linder "during that time" (or before that time) too. So now he's straight, right? He also took pictures almost completely naked RECENTLY with his current band, so surely, he's gay and having sex with his entire band, including Boz, right? AGAIN, you're naive.
And? So? What's your point? So if someone writes Morrissey's name across their chest, post it on facebook, they're gay and in love with Morrissey, huh? Interesting. Seriously, what planet are you from, Ms Fag Enabler?
One more thing- do you really think he lived, took photos like this one (http://motorcycleaupairboy.com/gallery/details.php?image_id=31) (it's a great photo by Anton Corbijn, by the way), swapped clothes and wrote songs about his roommate? It's quite clear there was something more between them. It's speculation, I know, but the clues are all there ;)
ˇViva Morrissey!
January 13, 2012, 04:40 AM
This (http://motorcycleaupairboy.com/interviews/1992/observer.htm) interview comes to mind...
Some quotes for you:
Really, you must be in some serious denial if you think Morrissey is straight:crazy:
OK, just as I thought - out of context. Let's analyze this interview you reference:
If there is a great mystery in Morrissey's life, however, it relates not to his business acumen but to his sexuality: a subject of endless fascination to his admirers ever since 1983 when Morrissey announced that he was celibate, thus apparently committing himself to a discipline attempted by only a few exceptional historical figures: men such as John Paul II, John Ruskin and Stephen Fry. How was it going?
'Well, I don't have physical relationships, if that's what you mean,' Morrissey said. 'But to use the word celibacy, to apply it to oneself is like implying that one has made a very firm decision. And that is not the case in my life. But physical relationships I never had. And if you never had, you never do,' he added, cryptically. 'The amount of activity I have actually experienced in my life could be crammed down to a rather pathetic couple of hours.'
His previous pronouncements on the subject have, I suggested, been rather confusing. In interviews he has said, variously, that 'I can't imagine my body ever feeling sexual excitement', that 'I wasn't aware of sexual experience until I was 28', and that 'I lost my virginity at 13'. These statements seemed somewhat inconsistent.
'Well — they are inconsistent,' he says. 'But not all of our lives are as cut and dried and black and white as they should be. Or as they might even seem to be.' So there you have it. Morrissey, who was heavily influenced by the feminist literature of the late Seventies, still argues that he as 'never seen the world as a gender-specific place'.
OK, let's stop right here:
The abundance of homo-erotic imagery in his lyrics and album covers (Your Arsenal, for example, shows him brandishing a microphone in a highly suggestive manner) should not, he says, be taken as a veiled declaration of homosexuality. 'I'm not running ahead and leaving clues hidden behind bus stops, as it were,' he says. 'One of my physical encounters was with a man. That was 10 years ago. It was just a very brief, absurd and amusing moment,' adds Morrissey, in his best Oscar Wilde. 'It wasn't love. I have never experienced that.'
Morrissey says that his album covers and lyrics SHOULD NOT "be taken as a veiled declaration of homosexuality". Hmmm. Interesting.
'One of my physical encounters was with a man. That was 10 years ago. This interview was conducted in 1992, so that puts the "incident" in 1982. Interestingly, he uses the word, "encounter." An encounter could be a simple hug or a man touching his knee or a stolen kiss catching a young Morrissey off-guard. To someone as physically and emotionally disabled as Morrissey was at this time, along with his declared celibacy, ANY human contact with ANYONE could be considered an "encounter". Let's take CrystalGeezer, for example, sorry CG, but it applies: CG went to a doctor's office and was "touched" and she found this to be semi-erotic, although the way she described it, it sounded more EROTIC than "semi." But here's a case, that depending on your own point of view and depravity, what one person considers erotic and another considers just a routine physical exam by a doctor is quite different. The truth is, Morrissey doesn't elabortate, so we STILL don't know.
He continues:
It was just a very brief, absurd and amusing moment,' adds Morrissey, in his best Oscar Wilde. 'It wasn't love. I have never experienced that.'
Hmmm, this doesn't sound like beautiful gay sex occurred. Quite the opposite. In fact, he sounds like a straight guy describing a drunken, even dared brief kiss, at a party or something. That would be an "absurd" and "amusing" moment. Not, a matter of fact, gay sex romp that alek2702 seems to see in the "encounter".
IN CONTRAST:
Has he slept with women? 'Yes. I feel completely open.
He seems QUITE COMFORTABLE ADMITTING TO THIS, doesn't he?
And the interview goes on:
If I met somebody tomorrow, male or female, and they loved me and I loved them, I would openly proclaim that I loved them, regardless of what they were. I think people should be loved whatever their gender, whatever their age. I am open to everything. I accept that my experience is different from that of most men. But I feel reasonably normal. I don't feel like a freak. My world is bigger. I never lived in a small town with small morals. I don't want to take drugs. I don't, so far as I am aware, want to take part in activities such as group sex. I'm actually a reasonably conservative, boring person.'
Morrissey merely states that he is OPEN. No more, no less. He's open. Him and over half the population are "OPEN" at the prospect of love, ESPECIALLY, if you're lonely, rejected and feel, in fact, UNLOVED. This doesn't mean GAY. This mean more "lonely". As I stated before, for people who can't read and can't comprehend very well. NO ONE is 100% anything. Straight or Gay. Morrissey has NEVER admitted ANYTHING. The only people who know are the people who had an "encounter" with him and even that doesn't say THAT much. People can change. Their interests do change. Many gay people realize that they are not gay and many straight people realize they are not straight. Everything is influx and variable depending on circumstances. So again, Moz doesn't come across as GAY to me. Andy Bell from Erasure comes off as GAY and he is. Morrissey does not. And actually, the gay community finds Morrissey irksome, while dabbling in what they believe to "their" cultural references, Morrissey doesn't feel the need, while plucking "their" things (claimed) like palare and what not, to associate himself with the gay community or anything therein. Seems curious. Why? Perhaps, because, he's NOT gay.
alek2702
January 13, 2012, 04:47 AM
OK, just as I thought - out of context. Let's analyze this interview you reference:
This interview was conducted in 1992, so that puts the "incident" in 1982. Interestingly, he uses the word, "encounter." An encounter could be a simple hug or a man touching his knee or a stolen kiss catching a young Morrissey off-guard. To someone as physically and emotionally disabled as Morrissey was at this time, along with his declared celibacy, ANY human contact with ANYONE could be considered an "encounter".
*snip*
As I said before- if you use an expression like "physical encounter" when asked about homosexuality it's clear you mean sexual activity, not "a simple hug".
You're awfully defensive about this, I wonder why?:rolleyes:
And have you read the interview (http://www.cemetrygates.com/vault/smiths/record.html) with Johny Marr where he clearly states that Morrissey had sex with women AND men? Or are you going to tell me he ment something else?
alek2702
January 13, 2012, 05:11 AM
Morrissey merely states that he is OPEN. No more, no less. He's open. Him and over half the population are "OPEN" at the prospect of love,
No. He clearly said that he's open to both sexes, which 'half the population' certainly isn't (sadly).
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NO ONE is 100% anything. Straight or Gay.
Now you contradict yourself. This is what you wrote a couple of posts ago:
he's STRAIGHT.
I'm not trying to shock or oppose you, but this is a fact.
And then, you contradict yourself again:
The only people that would know Morrissey's sexuality are the one's who've slept with him.
Funny.
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So again, Moz doesn't come across as GAY to me.
He's stated numerous times that he's attracted to both men and women, what he comes across as to you is irrelevant.
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Andy Bell from Erasure comes off as GAY and he is. Morrissey does not.
I hope you do realize that not every gay man is as camp as Andy Bell? (And by the way, have you seen November Spawned A Monster video?)
It's funny how you desperately try to deny the fact (judging by what the man himself has said) that he's had some sexual experience with men.
CrystalGeezer
January 13, 2012, 05:17 AM
Q: You're taken for an aesthete. Are you never attracted by plastic beauty? Women’s physiques?
M: I've had a quite late development on this level. Now if I see a beautiful woman I can be attracted like any man. But I find it very embarrassing. It's the same whether it's an attraction to a man or a woman. Nothing seems to go well with me. The concept of attraction doesn't work. Human relations don't work... If I see someone I find attractive, then I flee in the other direction. I'd be absolutely unable to go and talk to this person. What's the use of going and saying that I find this person attractive? It could never go well between us. The few times when I tried to build relationships - when I was younger - they never worked out for very long. So I gave up
"It could never go well between us."
This part intrigues me for reasons that are almost impossible to explain.
Peterb
January 13, 2012, 11:13 AM
Everyone thinks they are so smart. The only people that would know Morrissey's sexuality are the one's who've slept with him. So, it's really stupid to speculate, but... If we have to use a term to describe him, he's STRAIGHT.
I'm not trying to shock or oppose you, but this is a fact. I am also not saying he doesn't have "homo" tendencies, but this is nothing new for the entire human race. By the law of statistics, NO ONE is 100% straight and NO ONE (and this is the kicker) is 100% gay. IT IS IMPOSSIBLE. So, knowing this, the question is: What percentage of straight/gay is Morrissey? 50/50? 60/40? 30/70? or 99/1? To know this, you'd have to be in Morrissey's head (pardon the pun). Morrissey has discussed this in the past by way of "masculine/feminine" sides... So, I really don't get why people, even at this stage, desire to BRAND him one or the other and further, why people lazily use the term Gay or Bi. He's made it CLEAR that it's impossible to do so.
I have always thought of Morrissey as straight, but INTERESTED in homosexual...shall we say..."things"... This doesn't means he's gay, far from it. In fact, does it make me gay that I like Erasure songs? No, it doesn't. They are good songs. This interest, if it even exists, we know for a long time and based on his statements, Morrissey never acted upon (nor desired to, really) and seemed to suffer as a result of not acting on these, shall we say, "impulses." Someone mentioned "Jake" and....? So what? People consider Jake to be significant in some way... He took pictures. And? It seems all these little bitchy Morrissey fans, male and female, get it in their heads that Jake was Morrissey's lover. What evidence do you have of this? Because he took some pictures? Pathetic.
Morrissey could in fact be gay and as he has stated that he's no longer celibate, he could in fact screwed or been screwed by a dude. But, I really don't see it. If he is gay, I would be let down but only because how great and shocking it would be if he turned out to be straight? Everyone would be completely BAFFLED! Questions would abound, how can a straight man write these songs? I'll tell you how...BECAUSE HE'S HUMAN. This would make a great end to the Morrissey story, in my humble opinion.
But to answer the question of the thread, "Would I tell, if I knew?" NEVAH!
Hey Viva, how ya doing?
I do agree with parts of your post ("The only people that would know Morrissey's sexuality are the one's who've slept with him. So, it's really stupid to speculate", "By the law of statistics, NO ONE is 100% straight and NO ONE (and this is the kicker) is 100% gay") but alot of what you state does come across a bit homophobic but I do not believe this is the case, it is so easy to have ones ideas distorted and misunderstood when putting them down on a forum.
I think our sexuality is a very complex thing and is misunderstood, even when you are considering your own postion.
But let's face it, Moz has been careful not to make his sexuality clear in public so his orientation is completely open to speculation.
For myself, I honestly couldn't give a toss (although if it did involve horses I would be mildly interested interested).
Much more important is the new album and some gigs in London!
Amy
January 13, 2012, 11:45 AM
:lbf:Hahaha, you're joking, right? NEVER ONCE has Morrissey stated OPENLY or specifically about sleeping with men AND women. Are you insane? He hasn't even said, as far as I can remember, specifically, EVER BEING ATTRACTED TO BOTH Men and WOMEN? Are you insane? The only thing I remember him saying is that he was BORED with both of them.
No he can't. And he has stated it in several songs and interviews.
No, Johnny Marr IS NOT lying because HE NEVER SAID THAT. And if he did use the word "relationships", well, that really isn't saying ANYTHING as we all have certain relationships with both sexes throughout the world and in our lives, if even with a bank teller. Johnny would never dare ever say or elude to Morrissey being gay, not in the slightest. And anything that is construed as such, can easily be refuted.
Really? What evidence do you have of this? Perhaps they were close friends? Boz is close friends with Morrissey, did they have a sexual relationship too? Two friends can't live together without being gay? You're quite naive. You sound as if you're hoping he's gay to suit your lifestyle.
Oh yeah, he did so with Linder "during that time" (or before that time) too. So now he's straight, right? He also took pictures almost completely naked RECENTLY with his current band, so surely, he's gay and having sex with his entire band, including Boz, right? AGAIN, you're naive.
Really? What proof? AND so what!? This means nothing. Guys in college swap clothes all the time with their roommates and are not even close to gay. Again, naive.
Yes, I DO think it is HIGHLY platonic as you are easily duped. Look at the photo below, regardless of ANGIE MARR, Johnny SURELY was having gay sex with Morrissey while in The Smiths. I mean, look at it, if you think they're relationship was platonic, well....:rolleyes:
http://shirleymarr.net/news/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/morrissey-and-marr.jpg
I typed out a response to this, but others have answered it for me already. You've been given links to interviews where Morrissey specifically admits being attracted to men and women, and having sex with them. You've also been linked to the interview where Johnny Marr says, "Morrissey has had a lot of girlfriends in the past, and quite a few men friends as well". Now unless you are completely in denial, you can see from the context of the last statement that Johnny is referring to boyfriends. I can see from your later responses that you'll twist anything to suit your desperate need to think of Morrissey as straight, but it just is not true. As for the comment regarding my lifestyle -I am a straight woman. I have no reason whatsoever to "make" Morrissey gay to fit an agenda.
Finally, what do you think this song is about?
IAhYx-KbJNU
Staring in the window of a shop that never opens
Planning my selection from all the treats inside
Should I take as I desire?
Oh shall I, oh shall I
Or should I hang around to be enticed inside?
I'm trying to explain to myself
I can have both
I'm trying to explain to the voice inside
I can have both, I can have both
There's nobody around to say no
Who brainwashed the small shy boy inside
He doesn't know, he can have both
Amy
January 13, 2012, 11:59 AM
Yes, I DO think it is HIGHLY platonic as you are easily duped. Look at the photo below, regardless of ANGIE MARR, Johnny SURELY was having gay sex with Morrissey while in The Smiths. I mean, look at it, if you think they're relationship was platonic, well....:rolleyes:
http://shirleymarr.net/news/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/morrissey-and-marr.jpg
That is a photograph of a hug.
It is not a photograph of Morrissey lying face down on a bed with his legs splayed open and "Your Arse An'all" handwritten on his bare backside, whereas this one:
http://www.morrissey-solo.com/article.pl?sid=08/02/05/1848215
...is. Jake took that photograph, while they were living together, as well as this which was used as the cover art for the "All You Need Is Me" single 15 years later:
http://motorcycleaupairboy.com/gallery/details.php?image_id=2416
I find it quite saddening that you reject any notion of gay relationships in Morrissey's life. Why does it matter to you so much that he must only have slept with women? For God's sake...the cover of The Smiths' first single is a man's arse, the cover of the first album is still from a film involving male prostitution called Flesh, and his lyrics of the time contained lines like "Who will swallow whom?". That path is continued, more or less, all the way through his career. His homosexual "tendencies" really couldn't be any more obvious.
Peterb
January 13, 2012, 01:00 PM
This a little confusing, Viva is saying that Moz is straight with photo of him and Marr as proof that they were in a relationship whereas Amy is stating that Moz probably is gay but the photo proves nothing?
Amy
January 13, 2012, 02:17 PM
This a little confusing, Viva is saying that Moz is straight with photo of him and Marr as proof that they were in a relationship whereas Amy is stating that Moz probably is gay but the photo proves nothing?
Viva was being sarcastic about Morrissey & Marr. I was trying to explain the difference between a platonic embrace (the Johnny photograph) and photos with a clearly sexual undertone, (Arse An'all picture & the Jake crotch-nuzzling).
Peterb
January 13, 2012, 02:25 PM
Viva was being sarcastic about Morrissey & Marr. I was trying to explain the difference between a platonic embrace (the Johnny photograph) and photos with a clearly sexual undertone, (Arse An'all picture & the Jake crotch-nuzzling).
Gotcha!
the raytownian
January 13, 2012, 10:19 PM
I think the more important question is weather he is a top or a bottom
Worm
January 13, 2012, 10:37 PM
Heh. Someone found a sneaky way to start up a new "Is Moz gay?" thread. Impressive! :rolleyes:
MORRIZSEY
January 13, 2012, 10:55 PM
Heh. Someone found a sneaky way to start up a new "Is Moz gay?" thread. Impressive! :rolleyes:
Is that sarcasm?
peptastic
January 14, 2012, 12:45 AM
I might tell my twin sis [who am I kidding of course I would because I don't keep anything from her] but I'd be hard pressed to divulge the information to anyone.
And then only if it came up in conversation for a reason. I'm not perfect. I have kept secrets for a long time but due to my facial expressions those who know me best [my sisters] can always guess if asking me a direct question. I'm a horrible liar.
i would not want to tell anyone deliberately other than my twin.
Morrissey doesn't have to satisfy anyone's curiousity if he doesn't wish to. I think it's much the same thing as not going on the record for N.M.E about being a racist.
He shouldn't have to.
MORRIZSEY
January 14, 2012, 01:19 AM
Morrissey doesn't have to declare anything if he doesn't want to, and no one here is asking him to.
That's not the point.
We express opinions as fans. That's the reason for a fan site and is why we're here talking now.
Mr. Tibbles
January 14, 2012, 01:33 AM
YAWN. This has all been most illuminating. But to answer the original question, no, I wouldn't tell anyone. It's no one's business but Morrissey's and the lucky soul with whom he was hypothetically involved.
peptastic
January 14, 2012, 02:28 AM
Morrissey doesn't have to declare anything if he doesn't want to, and no one here is asking him to.
That's not the point.
We express opinions as fans. That's the reason for a fan site and is why we're here talking now.
I only meant as the reason why I would not tell anyone. He clearly doesn't want to.
I did not misunderstand the thread.
the raytownian
January 14, 2012, 08:54 AM
I spelled it "weather" when I meant to stay "whether".
I have to stop using antihistamines to get unsober (notice I didn't say "high"... I just think being retarded and delirious and seeing spiders everywhere is more fun that being depressed and sober and having a functioning brain).
Somebody stop me from thinking, from thinking all the time... Oh, hi, Annie! That pink dress looks lovely on you, dear...
PS:Hello again, S. Larker.
Death Disco
January 23, 2012, 08:55 PM
I spelled it "weather" when I meant to stay "whether".
I have to stop using antihistamines to get unsober (notice I didn't say "high"... I just think being retarded and delirious and seeing spiders everywhere is more fun that being depressed and sober and having a functioning brain).
Somebody stop me from thinking, from thinking all the time... Oh, hi, Annie! That pink dress looks lovely on you, dear...
PS:Hello again, S. Larker.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfRfPon9vmU
the raytownian
January 23, 2012, 09:00 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfRfPon9vmU
Pretty much, yeah.
Death Disco
January 23, 2012, 09:26 PM
Pretty much, yeah.
Spill the beans, what's wrong? I recognise a lost soul when I see one. I can help you.
the raytownian
January 26, 2012, 03:38 AM
I bitch too much is what's wrong. I am working on not being such a whiny fuck though.
Urban the swede
February 4, 2012, 12:57 AM
We know it so what is there to tell that isn't out there already?
He is a shirtlifter who plays for the away side and he is as gay as a fruit basket.
mauve21
February 11, 2012, 12:51 AM
Um who thought up this thread.
cornelius blaze
February 11, 2012, 09:23 AM
We know it so what is there to tell that isn't out there already?
He is a shirtlifter who plays for the away side and he is as gay as a fruit basket.
http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lz77h2NgaI1qa2eioo1_500.gif
Urban the swede
February 12, 2012, 02:25 AM
http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lz77h2NgaI1qa2eioo1_500.gif
Thank you for underlining my words with him posing all gay like that!
CrystalGeezer
February 12, 2012, 02:36 AM
We know it so what is there to tell that isn't out there already?
He is a shirtlifter who plays for the away side and he is as gay as a fruit basket.
But fruit tastes so goooood. Mmmmmmmm. Melons. :yum:
zepfan1
February 12, 2012, 03:13 AM
sighhhh....
BIXSEXUAL
CrystalGeezer
February 12, 2012, 03:40 AM
sighhhh....
BIXSEXUAL
My kingdom for a penis. :tears:
cornelius blaze
February 12, 2012, 09:30 AM
Thank you for underlining my words with him posing all gay like that!
http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k238/morrisseysolo/tumblr_lqcfeacnIZ1qcxtqo.gif
Oh no...i wasn't doing that ;)
My kingdom for a penis. :tears:
http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k238/morrisseysolo/tumblr_lqcfgvZbF71qcxtqo.gif
CrystalGeezer
February 12, 2012, 03:57 PM
http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k238/morrisseysolo/tumblr_lqcfgvZbF71qcxtqo.gif
If he were sitting in the same room with me and did this after I said that, I'm pretty sure my brain would explode, I'd most likely pass out and most likely I'd pee myself. And then maybe fart. And poop my pants a little bit. All daydreams of playing it cool and being a saucy seductress would evaporate immediately. :D
cornelius blaze
February 12, 2012, 07:06 PM
If he were sitting in the same room with me and did this after I said that, I'm pretty sure my brain would explode, I'd most likely pass out and most likely I'd pee myself. And then maybe fart. And poop my pants a little bit. All daydreams of playing it cool and being a saucy seductress would evaporate immediately. :D
EWWWWWWwwwww :p
http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lz390mDyTe1qhjnqdo1_500.jpg
CrystalGeezer
February 12, 2012, 07:24 PM
Nice pic! You're good at this!
Just being honest. Okay maybe I wouldn't poop my pants. If the fantasy and reality ever overlapped and were true, I'd be a blubbering mess, I'll just say that. :p
mauve21
February 14, 2012, 11:24 AM
You guys are sooo funny!
Peterb
February 14, 2012, 05:42 PM
Well, maybe I'd tell Morrissey.
Pav1ova
March 22, 2012, 10:57 AM
I wouldn't because I wouldn't even like to know.
nothappynotsad
April 1, 2012, 04:22 AM
I do, and I won't.
CrystalGeezer
April 1, 2012, 04:25 AM
I do, and I won't.
You do?
nothappynotsad
April 1, 2012, 04:28 AM
I've heard things which correlate from two reliable sources who don't even know one another. We had this conversation, remember?
CrystalGeezer
April 1, 2012, 04:30 AM
I've heard things which correlate from two reliable sources who don't even know one another. We had this conversation, remember?
Oh yeah. On your couch while you were hittin' the bong. :p You had it all worked out.
nothappynotsad
April 1, 2012, 05:43 AM
Oh yeah. On your couch while you were hittin' the bong. :p You had it all worked out.
Shhhhhh.
CrystalGeezer
May 9, 2012, 04:16 PM
Ame is the name.
CrystalGeezer
May 9, 2012, 04:48 PM
Okay, I just read this article and I HAVE to say something. This is the closest thread I could find without starting another thread.
http://www.rollingstone.com/music/news/tom-gabel-of-against-me-comes-out-as-transgender-20120508
Okay, so in the event that my theories about Morrissey being a hermetically sealed androgyne are correct, I hope. I wish. I PRAY that he reads or has read my theory SOMEWHERE regarding his sexuality before he thought about taking measures like gender reassignment surgery. Not that I think he would, because I think he awesomely owns being a man and masculine, but I seriously think based on occult things I've read and examining my own feelings and meditations, there's a ginormous chance that he feels like a woman while actually being a man. But he also might feel the desires of a man while needing the reassurance a woman needs.And without proper guidance and understanding, all those feelings and urges could get confused and one might falsely conclude that they need gender reassignment surgery.
Again, I'm not saying that would even be an option in his brain, but maybe in these weird times...I guess what I'm saying is, for the love of God, please don't cut off your dick. :o
Okay just my ten worried cents. If a Moz Camp shill is reading this please forward. kthx. Also for anyone considering that surgery I think it's an awesome option to be able to have for people who trully feel they are in the wrong body.
(I think I've been watching too many RuPaul's Drag Race. I seriously gotta go back to NHRA. :p)
Anonymous
May 9, 2012, 05:43 PM
I PRAY that he reads or has read my theory SOMEWHERE regarding his sexuality before he thought about taking measures like gender reassignment surgery. Not that I think he would, because I think he awesomely owns being a man and masculine, but I seriously think based on occult things I've read and examining my own feelings and meditations, there's a ginormous chance that he feels like a woman while actually being a man. But he also might feel the desires of a man while needing the reassurance a woman needs.And without proper guidance and understanding, all those feelings and urges could get confused and one might falsely conclude that they need gender reassignment surgery.
If this were anywhere close to true he would not fight so violently for men rights and slag women off in his songs as much he does. In his songs women are either in a coma, fat, want too many children, only marry in order to not be on benefits, don't properly care for their children, are a handicapped monster and somebody whom he cannot feel any love for. Did I forget anything? Oh yes, dead.
Yes, I would tell his sexual orientation. He is gay as fuck. He certainly is not asexual, because this has been tested and he and his friends were very eager to make it known that this he certainly is not and of course not interested in women.
Iona Mink
May 9, 2012, 06:38 PM
Okay, I just read this article and I HAVE to say something. This is the closest thread I could find without starting another thread.
http://www.rollingstone.com/music/news/tom-gabel-of-against-me-comes-out-as-transgender-20120508
Okay, so in the event that my theories about Morrissey being a hermetically sealed androgyne are correct, I hope. I wish. I PRAY that he reads or has read my theory SOMEWHERE regarding his sexuality before he thought about taking measures like gender reassignment surgery. Not that I think he would, because I think he awesomely owns being a man and masculine, but I seriously think based on occult things I've read and examining my own feelings and meditations, there's a ginormous chance that he feels like a woman while actually being a man. But he also might feel the desires of a man while needing the reassurance a woman needs.And without proper guidance and understanding, all those feelings and urges could get confused and one might falsely conclude that they need gender reassignment surgery.
Again, I'm not saying that would even be an option in his brain, but maybe in these weird times...I guess what I'm saying is, for the love of God, please don't cut off your dick. :o
Okay just my ten worried cents. If a Moz Camp shill is reading this please forward. kthx. Also for anyone considering that surgery I think it's an awesome option to be able to have for people who trully feel they are in the wrong body.
(I think I've been watching too many RuPaul's Drag Race. I seriously gotta go back to NHRA. :p)
:lbf: oh Crystal I love your self-confidence! It should be bottled!
But I don't think you have anything to worry about.
DAVIE
May 9, 2012, 06:47 PM
I guess what I'm saying is, for the love of God, please don't cut off your dick. :o
ahahahaha! you make me laugh sometimes Crystal....aren't you a fan of transgender? :D
I guess he's old enough to make his choices. It may be a publicity stunt though...
Anonymous
May 9, 2012, 06:49 PM
Okay, I just read this article and I HAVE to say something. This is the closest thread I could find without starting another thread.
http://www.rollingstone.com/music/news/tom-gabel-of-against-me-comes-out-as-transgender-20120508
Okay, so in the event that my theories about Morrissey being a hermetically sealed androgyne are correct, I hope. I wish. I PRAY that he reads or has read my theory SOMEWHERE regarding his sexuality before he thought about taking measures like gender reassignment surgery. Not that I think he would, because I think he awesomely owns being a man and masculine, but I seriously think based on occult things I've read and examining my own feelings and meditations, there's a ginormous chance that he feels like a woman while actually being a man. But he also might feel the desires of a man while needing the reassurance a woman needs.And without proper guidance and understanding, all those feelings and urges could get confused and one might falsely conclude that they need gender reassignment surgery.
Again, I'm not saying that would even be an option in his brain, but maybe in these weird times...I guess what I'm saying is, for the love of God, please don't cut off your dick. :o
Okay just my ten worried cents. If a Moz Camp shill is reading this please forward. kthx. Also for anyone considering that surgery I think it's an awesome option to be able to have for people who trully feel they are in the wrong body.
(I think I've been watching too many RuPaul's Drag Race. I seriously gotta go back to NHRA. :p)
Haven't you brought this up before?
http://www.morrissey-solo.com/threads/90038-I-don-t-think-Morrissey-is-gay?highlight=don%27t+think+is+gay
Anonymous
May 9, 2012, 07:05 PM
I seriously think based on occult things I've read and examining my own feelings and meditations, there's a ginormous chance that he feels like a woman while actually being a man.
I seriously think there's a ginormous chance that you're misinterpreting Morrissey as somebody who feels trapped by old-fashioned gender stereotypes. Fear not, I don't think he's about to do anything as reactionary as having cosmetic surgery to make a mess of his reproductive organs.
CrystalGeezer
May 9, 2012, 09:28 PM
I seriously think there's a ginormous chance that you're misinterpreting Morrissey as somebody who feels trapped by old-fashioned gender stereotypes. Fear not, I don't think he's about to do anything as reactionary as having cosmetic surgery to make a mess of his reproductive organs.
I suspect while there are at times a man dead for 100 years at the driving wheel of Morrissey's car, it can also be driven by a child and that talk of gender stereotypes and being above it all aside, sometimes he's a kid and can be directed in the wrong direction. That's all I'm saying.
I slipped into kid mode and wound up at a whore house in Tijuana all night, NOT WHERE I SHOULD'VE BEEN. :mad:
Anonymous
May 9, 2012, 09:55 PM
If this were anywhere close to true he would not fight so violently for men rights and slag women off in his songs as much he does. In his songs women are either in a coma, fat, want too many children, only marry in order to not be on benefits, don't properly care for their children, are a handicapped monster and somebody whom he cannot feel any love for. Did I forget anything? Oh yes, dead.
In the interests of balance, he seemed quite enamoured of Sheila.
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