I want the one I can't have thread

[MuteWitness616]

This song is so easy to relate to. I, right now desire somebody madly and desperately but can I have them, I don't know. Haven't attempted to pursue her. So as of right now I want thE one I can't have

Anybody else feel this way, to the point where it's driving you MAD

[modrevolve]

One of the few covers I prefer by Morrissey's band compared to The Smiths original due to the slowing down in tempo.

[someofusisturningnasty]

Yeah, it's great fun.

[CrystalGeezer]

I think you should stop pursuing her.

[MuteWitness616]

I think you should stop pursuing her.

Haven't

[CrystalGeezer]

Haven't

Well, you're not doing either of you any favors if her heart is set on someone else despite if you feel you can prove otherwise.

[mcrickson]

I've given up want :thumb:

[MuteWitness616]

Well, you're not doing either of you any favors if her heart is set on someone else despite if you feel you can prove otherwise.

I don't think she likes anybody else, that's the problem. I don't think she likes SOMEONE. She likes NOBODY.

[Neader]

Well if you're a nobody then you're chances are good!

*Ba-da ching!*

[CrystalGeezer]

I don't think she likes anybody else, that's the problem. I don't think she likes SOMEONE. She likes NOBODY.

I defer to the master for advice on this then:

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I know sortie means EXIT but google sortie and definition, it's kinda funny. :p

[Aalborg_Mozman]

This song is so easy to relate to. I, right now desire somebody madly and desperately but can I have them, I don't know. Haven't attempted to pursue her. So as of right now I want thE one I can't have

What would you lose in attempting to pursue her?

[Where are you in life - married with three kids, or 16 clumsy and shy?]

In your are closer to the latter (am guessing here), then surely the consequences of a put-down from her are unlikely to strench much further the igmany of the dumbfounded stare after the initial "no".

[goinghome]

I think you should stop pursuing her.

Aw, but he hasn't even attempted to pursue her yet! :confused:

I think he should consider approaching her and without saying a word, just serenade her with this song, hand on heart. It could be the start of a beautiful relationship (or the end of the opportunity)! :thumb:

[CrystalGeezer]

Either the part of James Joyce will be played by Aalborg Mozman or I'm the only one here who has no idea what igmany means. :straightface: :p

[CrystalGeezer]

Aw, but he hasn't even attempted to pursue her yet! :confused:

I think he should consider approaching her and without saying a word, just serenade her with this song, hand on heart. It could be the start of a beautiful relationship (or the end of the opportunity)! :thumb:

If he knows enough to know she want's nobody and doesn't want him, then he's pursued her. I just fear that he's extending his breaking heart feeling if he knows she's doing something else.

You know, a tactic I've learned from cheesy Hollywood movies that might work is to fix her up with someone who would seem attractive to her and eventually have him act like a monster, then her other option, you, looks way better and she falls for you instead. :rolleyes:

[mcrickson]

Bets that this will be moved to off-topic? :D

[Freda]

a tactic I've learned from cheesy Hollywood movies that might work is to fix her up with someone who would seem attractive to her and eventually have him act like a monster, then her other option, you, looks way better and she falls for you instead. :rolleyes:

my experience tells me cheesy Hollywood movies are unreliable :rolleyes: :)

[CrystalGeezer]

my experience tells me cheesy Hollywood movies are unreliable :rolleyes: :)

This is true because I believe the last movie of this scenario in the theater had the monster fall for the girl too and reveal his true nature, so still mutewitness616 would lose but most likely hook up with her quirky but lovable best friend instead.

Shit, I'm in the wrong business, I should be writing this schlock, or at least getting PAID to write this schlock. :p

[Freda]

Shit, I'm in the wrong business, I should be writing this schlock, or at least getting PAID to write this schlock. :p

:thumb: perhaps that's not a bad idea. time to think about changing occupation? :cool:

[Puppet on a string]

Just Ask her.

If you just can't get her of your mind, just ask her. Or at least show her that you're interested in a very obvious way. (Insert crude joke here.)

Easier said than done perhaps, but still the way to go.

[troubleluvsme]

This song is so easy to relate to. I, right now desire somebody madly and desperately but can I have them, I don't know. Haven't attempted to pursue her. So as of right now I want thE one I can't have

Anybody else feel this way, to the point where it's driving you MAD

How do you know that you cannot have her?

[Freda]

How do you know that you cannot have her?

yeah, I actually was about to ask the same :squiffy:

[mozsupportsrovers]

It's a tough one but just let life take it's course, if you don't do anything it mite make things worst, give her a call an ask her out, if she says no outright then you know she doesn't like you, but he might say yes and things will be fine

[CrystalGeezer]

I was assuming she already said she wasn't interested which is why I said give it up. I'm all about pursuing the dream girl, but not if she's already said no.

[oscillate wildly]

I've given up want :thumb:

this.

[helen661]

Follow your Heart, she might feel exactly the same about you :)

[MuteWitness616]

I like her deeply, but she has that sandie shaw, "I don't give a fuck attitude". Our friendship is strange, sometimes very close and sometimes she does not reply to me when I contact her. Soemtimes she does. She just seems like the type of girl that would never dependant on a guy.

She's so beautiful. I would post a picture but the fear of her looking @ this would be scary.

[troubleluvsme]

I like her deeply, but she has that sandie shaw, "I don't give a fuck attitude". Our friendship is strange, sometimes very close and sometimes she does not reply to me when I contact her. Soemtimes she does. She just seems like the type of girl that would never dependant on a guy.

She's so beautiful. I would post a picture but the fear of her looking @ this would be scary.

You know, she doesn't have to depend on you in order to enjoy your company and want to spend more time with you.
So, you could start there.

[hand in glove]

She may be very independent, but that doesn't mean she doesn't need love. You never know until you try. Sounds like she's just very aloof - she may come around if she knows how you feel.

Just...don't get too hung-up and turn her into your entire world. You'll regret it if you do. Take it as it comes...but you've got to make the first move. :)

[MuteWitness616]

You know, she doesn't have to depend on you in order to enjoy your company and want to spend more time with you.
So, you could start there.

Depend**

I'll see. It's a stain to phone her because I never know if she's out or busy or eating with her family.

This situation is so bad to be in.

But I made this thread for everybody to share their stories now I feel like it's all based on me

[hand in glove]

Depend**

I'll see. It's a stain to phone her because I never know if she's out or busy or eating with her family.

This situation is so bad to be in.

But I made this thread for everybody to share their stories now I feel like it's all based on me

No, don't feel that way! We just want to help you! :) I wish I could give you good advice, but I'm horrible at it, and besides, I've given up on love...:blushing:

[troubleluvsme]

Depend**

I'll see. It's a stain to phone her because I never know if she's out or busy or eating with her family.

This situation is so bad to be in.

But I made this thread for everybody to share their stories now I feel like it's all based on me


Isn't that the point of many of the threads you start, or have started in the past?

[Renia]

ooohh yesss. I love this song.

it's frustrating when you want the one you can't have.

luckily, there is nobody I'd really want! My school is full of gangbangers/wannabe gangbangers/general ignorance.
kinda puts one off.

I will say, that typically I like older guys, which can be very frustrating.

I hope things work out for you though. :) you should at least try, you never know what may happen.

[MozIsGod]

Isn't it ironic? We ignore who adore us, adore who ignore us, love who hurt us, and hurt who love us.

[oscillate wildly]

I like older men who are in positions of authority that make it impossible for me to show my interest in them. sad timez. :cool:

[troubleluvsme]

For some GAWD awful reason, this song popped into my head while I was reading through this thread earlier this evening.

h1ArZEFwRsY

[Danielledelu]

You can't even believe to imagine, I have for sure gone through the same thing. Still going through it.
It's called the unrequited love of a century.
Love this song as well.

the note I wrote
As she read, she said
"Has the Perrier gone
Straight to my head
Or is life sick and cruel, instead ?"

[Dave]

CEpAtTe-oJY

[A Lonely Soul]

Yeah it's certainly one of the Morrissey compositions that I feel has been written about a situation I was embroiled in. It contains one of the quintessential caustic and biting gems..

'If you ever need self-validation just meet me in the alley by the railway station'

Nobody beats Morrissey for a swift and damning denouncement of an act or a life, or the consumption of desire.

[mozsupportsrovers]

Love is the most beutiful thing when you have it, but the worst feeling ever when you dont.

[bored]

I like her deeply, but she has that sandie shaw, "I don't give a fuck attitude". Our friendship is strange, sometimes very close and sometimes she does not reply to me when I contact her. Soemtimes she does. She just seems like the type of girl that would never dependant on a guy.

She's so beautiful. I would post a picture but the fear of her looking @ this would be scary.

Relationships should never based on one person depending on the other. Relationships should be based on mutual desire.


Depend**

I'll see. It's a strain to phone her because I never know if she's out or busy or eating with her family.

This situation is so bad to be in.

But I made this thread for everybody to share their stories now I feel like it's all based on me

You sound really passive and supplicative. You should call her because you want to call her. It's not your job to protect her from you.

Does she ever call you?

You guys are already friends. This is good and bad. It's good because you are able to talk to you whenever you want but it's bad because she sees you as a friend and unless she's harbouring some secret desire to be with you. It can be hard to convert a girl to change the relationship.

How long have you know her for?
How often do you see her?

[speedfreaks ball]

stop been such an american wet fart, just walk reet up to her and say "get thi coat luv thas pulled" tek her fer a bag o chips down at local chippy and grab everything u can while waitin fer bus in bus shelter. cant fail.

[MuteWitness616]

Relationships should never based on one person depending on the other. Relationships should be based on mutual desire.



You sound really passive and supplicative. You should call her because you want to call her. It's not your job to protect her from you.

Does she ever call you?

You guys are already friends. This is good and bad. It's good because you are able to talk to you whenever you want but it's bad because she sees you as a friend and unless she's harbouring some secret desire to be with you. It can be hard to convert a girl to change the relationship.

How long have you know her for?
How often do you see her?

I've known her for about 3 months and see her like twice a month

[VacancyForABackscrubber]

stop been such an american wet fart, just walk reet up to her and say "get thi coat luv thas pulled" tek her fer a bag o chips down at local chippy and grab everything u can while waitin fer bus in bus shelter. cant fail.

Hahahaha.

[MindlessRuffian]

I defer to the master for advice on this then:

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I know sortie means EXIT but google sortie and definition, it's kinda funny. :p

a military action in which besieged troops burst forth from their position

:lbf:

[MindlessRuffian]

I like older men who are in positions of authority that make it impossible for me to show my interest in them. sad timez. :cool:

This.

[Poppy Full]

I like older men who are in positions of authority that make it impossible for me to show my interest in them. sad timez. :cool:


This.

Me too. Not in general, just one. :tears: Woe is me.

[Cassius]

I like older men who are in positions of authority that make it impossible for me to show my interest in them. sad timez. :cool:

Hellz yeah.

[oscillate wildly]

Me too. Not in general, just one. :tears: Woe is me.

I am currently having the same problem, bb.

[CharlieFairhead]

stop been such an american wet fart, just walk reet up to her and say "get thi coat luv thas pulled" tek her fer a bag o chips down at local chippy and grab everything u can while waitin fer bus in bus shelter. cant fail.

Aye, that all made sense to me.

[Hidden By Rags]

The word restraint comes to my mind.

[MindlessRuffian]

I've found its easier just not to want anyone. So I can sit back, drink my Ovaltine without anyone giving me grief.

[Hellie]

stop been such an american wet fart, just walk reet up to her and say "get thi coat luv thas pulled" tek her fer a bag o chips down at local chippy and grab everything u can while waitin fer bus in bus shelter. cant fail.


"Get thi coat luv thas pulled":lbf:very good:thumb:

[MuteWitness616]

she likes me!!!

[mcrickson]

Thank heavens. Now I can sleep at night.

[MuteWitness616]

I had her! ;)

[Mad Vespa]

a military action in which besieged troops burst forth from their position

:lbf:

I LOVE this little film ... ahhhhh :)

[oscillate wildly]

now you have to get out of the club, mute witness.

MR, give some ovaltine over here plz.

[troubleluvsme]

I had her! ;)

That's great, but now you've messed up the song. ;)

[Renia]

See my problem is I'm always afraid to tell people how I feel. D:

both my friend and my dad yelled at me for it this weekend. I feel terrible, because I told my friend to go for a guy we both liked (I neglected to tell her I liked him too...I felt bad...) and my dad told her that I liked him after he left on Friday. She was more annoyed with the fact I just didn't tell her.

so then my dad told me to stop being an idiot and just tell him how I feel. But I don't want to do that, cause I'm sure it'll make it awkward. he says that he doesn't want to date right now, he just wants to graduate. So even though both my friend and dad say I have a good chance (or as my friend says "you MAKE him want to date") I really don't want to ruin what friendship I have with him.

cause he is the only person in that school that I REALLY get along. we like a lot of the same stuff. (He is also the only person to know the Smiths are!)

Although he left his scarf here...so I think that's a sign. 8)